"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How often do you see your girlfriend?

Mr.Fantastic

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I have been with this girl for about 2 months, she is calling me her boyfriend now, and in relationship mode, which is cool with me coz i like her alot. But the thing is she seems to want to see me all the time; like I spent all weekend with her, and now its monday and I feel like just staying home n watching tv. She sent me a text saying "the boys in the pub think you should walk me home! lol, I think you should walk me home so i can fvck your brains out!'.

Now, I do love messages like this, but she texted me earlier saying she has stuff to tell me that will make me laugh and that she will ring me after work (she works in a bar), now she is pusing me to go round there. I dunno, I just cant be bothered tonight.

I feel like if i spend all me time with her she will have me whipped, I feel like if i go round now I will be being her puppy, trained at the call of sex.

Anyone got some ****ey n funny replies i could give her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Raikojo17

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doesnt really call or ****y funny. but for you to put your foot down.

tell her that you guys spent all weekend together and that you need some time to yourself for a few days. you can talk to her on the phone, but you dont have to see each other everyday
 

typical

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Almost everyday unless one of us has work or family things to attend to.

Before anyone bugs me for saying I'm spending too much time with her let me explain how it goes. She likes that I go to gym and uni and have a part time job and how I'm trying to start up my own business while still being able to make a sh!t load of time for her. While she does the exact same, she's trying to get on her own two feet yet still makes time almost everyday.

BTW your running away from sex ............. are you mentally sane ??? Your not gay are you, heres a tip next time she says that go to her place when she opens the door just jump her right there no talking nothing just get right into it. Make sure you leave her so she cant walk straight for a week. That way you wont need to worry about becoming a puppy trained for sex, she'll beg for you to do the same again
 

So pimp its scary

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Seriously, just be busy... have an outside life from your girlfriend, a life that you expose her to at your discretion.
 

CORVETTE06

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dont be whipped. do what YOU want. not what she wants. straighten her out now
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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