"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How often do you meet girls/women you like?

Belmar2009

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WHat I mean by like: You not only find her physically appealing, but you like
her personality and there is a strong chemistry between you two.

(e.g. You don't just see her as a hook up, but someone you want to spend time with)

The reason I am asking is becuase it seems I only meet women I have that strong attraction to like once or twice a year. The last one being like 7 months ago.

I mean, plenty of girls are physically attractive but alot of them are either *****y, psycho, sloppy drunk, gold diggers or just plain airheads.

I go out in decent amounts, but it seems hard to meet a chick you really connect with.

Is it just me?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nutz

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So far maybe 2 or 3 in the last 2 years. I've met hundreds of women in that time, maybe thousands, and only 2 or 3 really caught my attention for serious potential. What's that say about women in general these days?
 

Georgey

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belmar that completly normal. u just have fun meeting and dating. but in the end, u do all that to find the one u dream of. but u watch out u dont get heart broken whoever she is.
so yea u meet hotties all the time. but the one ure really into... happens once a year or 2
 

women haze

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...............It sucks when you meet someone you dig and they don't dig you in return. Happens to me a whole lot, and I'd have to say that the only time I felt anything that MIGHT be love was my first love.
 

Deniska

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I think i have met 3 such women in the last 4 years.

On the other hand, ive met many women with great personalities, but i had zero physical atraction towards them.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Nygard

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As in talking to them and knowing them better? Hmm. Maybe 3 or 4 in my whole life. Might be a little more.
 

Allurre

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It's a numbers game bro. The more you're out there, meeting more women, the more likely you'll find one that fits you more like a glove.

Then again, you can say luck is a variable.
 
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