"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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how often do you guys see you girlfriends?

TheShineDog

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I try to see my chick like only three times a week, but it is really hard cause she is all over me all the time. Should i tell her that i don't want to hang out with her for no reason? I try not answering the phone but that only works for a short time.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Fuglydude

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TheShineDog said:
I try to see my chick like only three times a week, but it is really hard cause she is all over me all the time. Should i tell her that i don't want to hang out with her for no reason? I try not answering the phone but that only works for a short time.
My girl comes over every night...unless I'm out of town or don't get home til super late. I need sex atleast once a day. Plus she's like one of my best friends and I love spending time with her.
 

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Yeah... i see my girl daily also. I pretty much have two houses. With that said, if I'm not in the mood to see her, then I'll just tell her that I'm staying at home that night. She understands. Sometimes she wants her space also and asks me not to come over. I don't need an excuse and neither does she.

I think you should talk to your girl about this. It's best to be upfront and honest without being hurtful. Girls feelings get hurt easily so you're gonna have to convey that you're not trying to hurt her by staying home over and over again. Explain to her that you enjoy the time that you spend together and appreciate her for wanting to spend all her time with you, but every now and then you feel the need to unwind and chill.

If she cares about your feelings, then she'll understand. If she cries and bi&ches about the whole thing and makes an arguement about it, then she's selfish and you might wanna look into getting a new girl all together.

Just my two cents.
 
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