"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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how often do you guys see you girlfriends?

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I try to see my chick like only three times a week, but it is really hard cause she is all over me all the time. Should i tell her that i don't want to hang out with her for no reason? I try not answering the phone but that only works for a short time.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheShineDog said:
I try to see my chick like only three times a week, but it is really hard cause she is all over me all the time. Should i tell her that i don't want to hang out with her for no reason? I try not answering the phone but that only works for a short time.
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My girl comes over every night...unless I'm out of town or don't get home til super late. I need sex atleast once a day. Plus she's like one of my best friends and I love spending time with her.
 
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Yeah... i see my girl daily also. I pretty much have two houses. With that said, if I'm not in the mood to see her, then I'll just tell her that I'm staying at home that night. She understands. Sometimes she wants her space also and asks me not to come over. I don't need an excuse and neither does she.

I think you should talk to your girl about this. It's best to be upfront and honest without being hurtful. Girls feelings get hurt easily so you're gonna have to convey that you're not trying to hurt her by staying home over and over again. Explain to her that you enjoy the time that you spend together and appreciate her for wanting to spend all her time with you, but every now and then you feel the need to unwind and chill.

If she cares about your feelings, then she'll understand. If she cries and bi&ches about the whole thing and makes an arguement about it, then she's selfish and you might wanna look into getting a new girl all together.

Just my two cents.
 
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