Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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how often do you guys see you girlfriends?

TheShineDog

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I try to see my chick like only three times a week, but it is really hard cause she is all over me all the time. Should i tell her that i don't want to hang out with her for no reason? I try not answering the phone but that only works for a short time.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fuglydude

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TheShineDog said:
I try to see my chick like only three times a week, but it is really hard cause she is all over me all the time. Should i tell her that i don't want to hang out with her for no reason? I try not answering the phone but that only works for a short time.
My girl comes over every night...unless I'm out of town or don't get home til super late. I need sex atleast once a day. Plus she's like one of my best friends and I love spending time with her.
 

kdnash82

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Yeah... i see my girl daily also. I pretty much have two houses. With that said, if I'm not in the mood to see her, then I'll just tell her that I'm staying at home that night. She understands. Sometimes she wants her space also and asks me not to come over. I don't need an excuse and neither does she.

I think you should talk to your girl about this. It's best to be upfront and honest without being hurtful. Girls feelings get hurt easily so you're gonna have to convey that you're not trying to hurt her by staying home over and over again. Explain to her that you enjoy the time that you spend together and appreciate her for wanting to spend all her time with you, but every now and then you feel the need to unwind and chill.

If she cares about your feelings, then she'll understand. If she cries and bi&ches about the whole thing and makes an arguement about it, then she's selfish and you might wanna look into getting a new girl all together.

Just my two cents.
 
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