"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How Often Do You Get Out of the House?

mickdollaz

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I know some of my neighbors rarely if ever leave the house or apartment. Maybe once a month or so. Granted they've always been more or less housebound from what I can tell. Others are leaving every day for work during the week.

I overheard someone in the store say he had only been out of his house/apt. 3x in the past month.

I'm self employed but get out most days of the week, if not every single day.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lookatu

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I try to take walks everyday and try to be in high visible places like the lake front trails or parks.
I'll do errands too and go to stores just to be moving.
Every weekend, I try to go to a new beach. I just picked up a windsurfer and a paddle board so that will be my routine for the rest of the summer on the weekends.
It's very eerily weird seeing empty hallways and entrances when I visit a couple of my plates like no one is living in their apartment complexes or condo units. But I know people are there but probably locked down like a hermit as I see several delivery packages in the doorway.
So I believe it when you heard that guy say he's only been out 3 times.

I guess those guys that are hunkered in their apartments is good for us since they are probably not moving and getting fat and not well groomed since lack of hair cut. Less competition...
 

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The local recreational areas have been absolutely decimated in terms of usage. I'd say it's fallen off by 90%, and that's no exaggeration. Two months ago, they were absolutely packed pretty much any time of the day. Now, crickets.

I suppose I could rejoice that I have these rec areas to myself, but it's very strange seeing these places turn into ghost towns almost overnight.

What happened to the resistance that we were seeing prior to all of this negro lives matter nonsense? Why did people stop caring about their rights immediately after this idiotic distraction?
 
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Lookatu

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The local recreational areas have been absolutely decimated in terms of usage. I'd say it's fallen off by 90%, and that's no exaggeration. Two months ago, they were absolutely packed pretty much any time of the day. Now, crickets.
Damn that sucks. Looks like you gotta scope out new digs. There's going to be a good amount of like minded individuals like yourself. You just have to find out where they all congregate.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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redskinsfan92

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I know some of my neighbors rarely if ever leave the house or apartment. Maybe once a month or so. Granted they've always been more or less housebound from what I can tell. Others are leaving every day for work during the week.

I overheard someone in the store say he had only been out of his house/apt. 3x in the past month.

I'm self employed but get out most days of the week, if not every single day.
Easier to ask when I'm ever home.
Answer. About 5 times a week for 6-8 hours
 

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During the start of Covid I was only going out to work. Now I go out everyday. Doing my best to pretend the world hasn’t gone mad, for as long as I can.
 
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