"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How Often Do You Get Out of the House?

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I know some of my neighbors rarely if ever leave the house or apartment. Maybe once a month or so. Granted they've always been more or less housebound from what I can tell. Others are leaving every day for work during the week.

I overheard someone in the store say he had only been out of his house/apt. 3x in the past month.

I'm self employed but get out most days of the week, if not every single day.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lookatu

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I try to take walks everyday and try to be in high visible places like the lake front trails or parks.
I'll do errands too and go to stores just to be moving.
Every weekend, I try to go to a new beach. I just picked up a windsurfer and a paddle board so that will be my routine for the rest of the summer on the weekends.
It's very eerily weird seeing empty hallways and entrances when I visit a couple of my plates like no one is living in their apartment complexes or condo units. But I know people are there but probably locked down like a hermit as I see several delivery packages in the doorway.
So I believe it when you heard that guy say he's only been out 3 times.

I guess those guys that are hunkered in their apartments is good for us since they are probably not moving and getting fat and not well groomed since lack of hair cut. Less competition...
 

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The local recreational areas have been absolutely decimated in terms of usage. I'd say it's fallen off by 90%, and that's no exaggeration. Two months ago, they were absolutely packed pretty much any time of the day. Now, crickets.

I suppose I could rejoice that I have these rec areas to myself, but it's very strange seeing these places turn into ghost towns almost overnight.

What happened to the resistance that we were seeing prior to all of this negro lives matter nonsense? Why did people stop caring about their rights immediately after this idiotic distraction?
 
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The local recreational areas have been absolutely decimated in terms of usage. I'd say it's fallen off by 90%, and that's no exaggeration. Two months ago, they were absolutely packed pretty much any time of the day. Now, crickets.
Damn that sucks. Looks like you gotta scope out new digs. There's going to be a good amount of like minded individuals like yourself. You just have to find out where they all congregate.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I know some of my neighbors rarely if ever leave the house or apartment. Maybe once a month or so. Granted they've always been more or less housebound from what I can tell. Others are leaving every day for work during the week.

I overheard someone in the store say he had only been out of his house/apt. 3x in the past month.

I'm self employed but get out most days of the week, if not every single day.
Easier to ask when I'm ever home.
Answer. About 5 times a week for 6-8 hours
 

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During the start of Covid I was only going out to work. Now I go out everyday. Doing my best to pretend the world hasn’t gone mad, for as long as I can.
 
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