stuka1939
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How often do you catch girls/women looking in your direction or giving you good vibes (e.g. a smile)
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
As you can see, this is an imposter. The line under Stuka1939 is a bit longer.Stuka1939 _ said:...or guys!
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
i highly doubt that. nothing personal, that statisitic implies you are eithern df extremley faous or good looking, moreos than 95-99% of the population.Deep Dish said:I have been consistently told by different friends over the years that about 98% of women check me out. I, however, hardly ever notice. In part because I don't pay enough attention and don't go out socially enough, but also in part because women are very subtle, refined, in their gawking abilities.
Yes, you would seem to be, which is why I'm discounting your disagreement at least until you sober you. I agree I'm not within the top two percent best-looking percentile, but then again I am never around super models and super models aren't exactly commonly found in the general population. Women do find I'm a "very cute", "handsome", or "hot" guy--the degree depending on their personal tastes--and that's all it takes to get a very high percentage of glances. I've been compared to Jude Law. I myself have always been skeptical of the statistics, but every time I have sought a really honest answer, those are the numbers I have heard.6-heads lewis said:im drunk.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
dammit Mahon8538...STFU!!! :box:Stuka1939 _ said:I'm just saying, I check out dudes and dudes check me out. I think they like what they see.
I know this guy's trying to troll but he's not too far off. Guys don't "check out" other guys unless they're gay, but straight dudes will size up attractive guys to see where they fall in line. At the risk of this sounding a bit gay, I have noticed many guys staring at me in class and on the street before. Which means either I'm really hideous looking or attractive enough to make the other guy feel like I'm going to be tougher competition in going after the ladies.Stuka1939 _ said:...or guys!
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.