stuka1939
Banned
How often do you catch girls/women looking in your direction or giving you good vibes (e.g. a smile)
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
As you can see, this is an imposter. The line under Stuka1939 is a bit longer.Stuka1939 _ said:...or guys!
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
i highly doubt that. nothing personal, that statisitic implies you are eithern df extremley faous or good looking, moreos than 95-99% of the population.Deep Dish said:I have been consistently told by different friends over the years that about 98% of women check me out. I, however, hardly ever notice. In part because I don't pay enough attention and don't go out socially enough, but also in part because women are very subtle, refined, in their gawking abilities.
Yes, you would seem to be, which is why I'm discounting your disagreement at least until you sober you. I agree I'm not within the top two percent best-looking percentile, but then again I am never around super models and super models aren't exactly commonly found in the general population. Women do find I'm a "very cute", "handsome", or "hot" guy--the degree depending on their personal tastes--and that's all it takes to get a very high percentage of glances. I've been compared to Jude Law. I myself have always been skeptical of the statistics, but every time I have sought a really honest answer, those are the numbers I have heard.6-heads lewis said:im drunk.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
dammit Mahon8538...STFU!!! :box:Stuka1939 _ said:I'm just saying, I check out dudes and dudes check me out. I think they like what they see.
I know this guy's trying to troll but he's not too far off. Guys don't "check out" other guys unless they're gay, but straight dudes will size up attractive guys to see where they fall in line. At the risk of this sounding a bit gay, I have noticed many guys staring at me in class and on the street before. Which means either I'm really hideous looking or attractive enough to make the other guy feel like I'm going to be tougher competition in going after the ladies.Stuka1939 _ said:...or guys!
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.