stuka1939
Banned
How often do you catch girls/women looking in your direction or giving you good vibes (e.g. a smile)
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
As you can see, this is an imposter. The line under Stuka1939 is a bit longer.Stuka1939 _ said:...or guys!
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
i highly doubt that. nothing personal, that statisitic implies you are eithern df extremley faous or good looking, moreos than 95-99% of the population.Deep Dish said:I have been consistently told by different friends over the years that about 98% of women check me out. I, however, hardly ever notice. In part because I don't pay enough attention and don't go out socially enough, but also in part because women are very subtle, refined, in their gawking abilities.
Yes, you would seem to be, which is why I'm discounting your disagreement at least until you sober you. I agree I'm not within the top two percent best-looking percentile, but then again I am never around super models and super models aren't exactly commonly found in the general population. Women do find I'm a "very cute", "handsome", or "hot" guy--the degree depending on their personal tastes--and that's all it takes to get a very high percentage of glances. I've been compared to Jude Law. I myself have always been skeptical of the statistics, but every time I have sought a really honest answer, those are the numbers I have heard.6-heads lewis said:im drunk.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
dammit Mahon8538...STFU!!! :box:Stuka1939 _ said:I'm just saying, I check out dudes and dudes check me out. I think they like what they see.
I know this guy's trying to troll but he's not too far off. Guys don't "check out" other guys unless they're gay, but straight dudes will size up attractive guys to see where they fall in line. At the risk of this sounding a bit gay, I have noticed many guys staring at me in class and on the street before. Which means either I'm really hideous looking or attractive enough to make the other guy feel like I'm going to be tougher competition in going after the ladies.Stuka1939 _ said:...or guys!
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.