"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how often do u guys call girls?

eXclu$ive $wAggA

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i believe that in HS the phone game is crucial in gettin farther with girls. i dont believe in only calling for a date or w/e. were in high school fellas. we dont have our own cars (well at least some of us) and girls parents usualy dont just let you come over any old time so therefor we cant realy control when we see a ***** outside of school.

lately ive been pullin more numbers and im just wondering how often I should call the girl and how often we should let her call us etc. what are you guy's opinions?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dazz

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i rarely ask a girl for their number, instead i give them mine,

if they are to insecure to call a guy, then **** em, i don' want them anyway, there are TONS TONS TONS TONS TONS more fish in the sea
 

War Against Betaism

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Dazz said:
i rarely ask a girl for their number, instead i give them mine,

if they are to insecure to call a guy, then **** em, i don' want them anyway, there are TONS TONS TONS TONS TONS more fish in the sea
Bad idea, they will almost NEVER make the first call even if they weren't insecure, so you're just missing your chances on a lot of potential dates.

Anyways, my times vary, but I never call a girl on consecutive days. That's basically my only rule, and I only talk to them for at least 10 minutes.
 

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your right in HS phone game is crucial. Fvck the "phone rules" do what you want to do. Phone game is important in HS and Long Distance Relationships
 

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i kno where your coming from mpimpin but i just get confused when im always the one calling them and they only call me when they said they would call me back.

like this one hb9 who shows mad high IOI gives me good convo on the phone but it seems im always the one calling her. im wondering if this is normal in hs. or if her never callin me is a sign of low interest.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bvbidd

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You will always be the one calling her unless she's your gf.

Get used to that guys.
 
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