"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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how often do u guys call girls?

eXclu$ive $wAggA

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i believe that in HS the phone game is crucial in gettin farther with girls. i dont believe in only calling for a date or w/e. were in high school fellas. we dont have our own cars (well at least some of us) and girls parents usualy dont just let you come over any old time so therefor we cant realy control when we see a ***** outside of school.

lately ive been pullin more numbers and im just wondering how often I should call the girl and how often we should let her call us etc. what are you guy's opinions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i rarely ask a girl for their number, instead i give them mine,

if they are to insecure to call a guy, then **** em, i don' want them anyway, there are TONS TONS TONS TONS TONS more fish in the sea
 

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Dazz said:
i rarely ask a girl for their number, instead i give them mine,

if they are to insecure to call a guy, then **** em, i don' want them anyway, there are TONS TONS TONS TONS TONS more fish in the sea
Bad idea, they will almost NEVER make the first call even if they weren't insecure, so you're just missing your chances on a lot of potential dates.

Anyways, my times vary, but I never call a girl on consecutive days. That's basically my only rule, and I only talk to them for at least 10 minutes.
 

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your right in HS phone game is crucial. Fvck the "phone rules" do what you want to do. Phone game is important in HS and Long Distance Relationships
 

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i kno where your coming from mpimpin but i just get confused when im always the one calling them and they only call me when they said they would call me back.

like this one hb9 who shows mad high IOI gives me good convo on the phone but it seems im always the one calling her. im wondering if this is normal in hs. or if her never callin me is a sign of low interest.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bvbidd

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You will always be the one calling her unless she's your gf.

Get used to that guys.
 
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