How often did women openly express their interest in you

[jhonny9546]

How often did women openly express their interest in you, either in person or through DMs? (I don’t mean subtle hints, jokes, or IOIs, but situations where she directly said she was interested.)

 

[Doctor Europeo]

Less than once a month

 

[The Duke]

Very rare. 1 in 100. It's not how women are programmed.

 

[BaronOfHair]

How often did women openly express their interest in you, either in person or through DMs? (I don’t mean subtle hints, jokes, or IOIs, but situations where she directly said she was interested.)

I'll answer your question this way:

If I'm keeping myself up, women do so quite often, in all those typical subtle ways. Either way we slice it though, it's incumbent on YOU, as the man, to lay the groundwork for women being receptive

We lay that groundwork via the clothes we choose to wear, the manner in which we groom ourselves, the sort of activities we engage in our personal lives, etc etc. As others have said, women don't generally simp for us, the way we so often do for him

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Yesterday.

Often enough that it’s just part of life.
I have a GF, so I really don’t pay much attention.


As far as Online.
I don’t put my picture on any of my profiles. When I did would, at least weekly, get some girl DMing me.

 

[Vanderdonck]

Overtly? Not often but it happens.

 

[Redwood]

Don't remember, feels like a blur. If they do it's usually a setup.

 

[MatureDJ]

I think like 4 times from decent chicks, and 4 more times from fatties.

 

[Travel memoir21]

I can think of only one time a group of women approached me and it looked they were young freshmen in college or seniors in high school and I was wearing my Texas Longhorns beanie in the mall and I remembered something super funny in the hallways and I was laughing and I had a huge smile on my face and the girls said something like, ‘ you look like a happy guy, what’s your name?’…lol, I was too naive to escalate, but knowing what I know now, I would have took them back to my Air Force dorm room, grab some Coronas, get pizzas, invite some of my Air Force brothers and dance the night away with these broads. They looked like a fun bunch too, the type you can share with your skateboarding buddies, be some sort of cheerleading groupies and just chill man. lol memories bro.

 

[jhonny9546]

in all those typical subtle ways

I've said above tho exclude those subtle ways.
I think that a man receive a lot of subtle things and we miss.
But what about "direct" things

When I did would, at least weekly, get some girl DMing me.

Direct or Indirect things?
Like "Hey I really Like you"
or "Hey, that dress look cool"

 

[BaronOfHair]

But what about "direct" things

Not the way women typically communicate

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Direct or Indirect things?
Like "Hey I really Like you"
or "Hey, that dress look cool"

Typically only premium member to my OF channel get to see me in a dress.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I've said above tho exclude those subtle ways.
I think that a man receive a lot of subtle things and we miss.
But what about "direct" things

Direct or Indirect things?
Like "Hey I really Like you"
or "Hey, that dress look cool"

Similar to IRl.

‘Hi’
‘How’s your day going’

Occasionally some super-horney girl will get aggressive.

Needless to say, as I have a GF that I’ll probably marry, I no longer put my picture on SM.

 

[Redwood]

Don't remember. The lack of social grace gave way to low rent trolling nowadays.

 

[Gamisch]

Working for a client. This is an older woman but she looks very good. She's acting like a giggly little girl around me. Keeps talking about how she wants to stay single even tho she still wants love. Posh woman but you know..woman =woman..

Extremely difficult to remain stoic and professional. I would love to smash that and give her tbe golden D. But simultaneously I enjoy the vagueness of the mutual attraction . She promotes the F out of my business, so I can make a lot more money via her. So my advice to myself would be: don't touch her.

Other than that: women love ya boi

 

[jhonny9546]

I've definitely had many women, of all ages, and in all romantic situations, communicate subtly. Very often.
I think it's very common.

As a man, I've always told myself that responses these women received from me, about their subtle "seducting" interactions, were terrible. I'm still a good direct communicator, but a terrible indirect one.
How have you improved it?

 

[BaronOfHair]

I'm still a good direct communicator, but a terrible indirect one.
How have you improved it?

Becoming a more INDIRECT communicator, then hoping that'll get the panties dropping, makes less sense than showing up to a bris ceremony equipped with sand paper instead of an itzel

As the man, it's your role to be direct and plain-spoken