"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How not to f. this up?

Sonic69

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Found a job at a restaurant, ex comes with female friend not knowing that I work there. I have to bring them coffee. So I did and had a quick chat.

Ex sends a message in the night that she wants to buy this sex toy we used. I woke up an hour later, thirsty and saw the message. Responded, "no" but you can come and see it. She asks when. I said come to my place, she said she can't drive, she's smoked weed. After a few minutes later I said il pick her up She said I'm home alone and have to take care of my little bro. My parents will come soon though. I said OK, nothing than.

She asked, can we do it some other time?
I said, yeah. I waited for a while to see the interest level and send her a text. Under one condition. She responds straight away. What? I waitied for the suspense. I said I want you to call me and rub your little ***** on the phone until you ***. And I want you to tell me how you are cumming for me.

Message in 30s, my parents are gonna come they will hear me. I didn't even manage to read it, boom phone call. I answer going straight to the point. "Is my ***** wet?" she says:"Yeah!" with that steamy hard breathing voice. She asks me what do you want me to do. I said take your finger and start grinding your little wet *****, but very slowly. She starts and she gives me the moan of the century.
So blah blah blah, dirty talk, blah blah, and 35 seconds later she is whispering in my ear. I'm cumming, I'm cumming for you. It was really hot so I rub one out as well.

Few sentences later, about how her legs are shaking and I'm already closing the conversation. She is asking me when can we see each other. I said send me a message and we'll sort something out.

So tldr: ex is pushing back for plate, I hope I played it right and how to keep going from there?
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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cola

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Nothing you can do really. You said "send me a message and we can sort it out" now you kind of have to wait for her to hit you up, otherwise you look weak/thirsty, lack options.

So next time you're in a similar situation never say "hit me up and lmk" say "we'll work out a time" this leaves the option open for a follow up text later in the week.

I don't really do the whole "let me hear you play with your box over the phone" thing because it's kinda childish .. but I would keep the convo lightly sexual.
Nothing too lewd but definitely flirty and fun.
 

EyeBRollin

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Your frame is too weak.

The moment she said "I can't drive" you respond with "ok another time." Then ghost. Offering to pick up an ex never works; you appear way too thirsty. It has to 100% their idea. They must initiate everything. Otherwsie, they'll destroy you.
 
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