"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How NOT to ask out a female. A case study.

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Look at this IM conversation that was passed onto me. All names and screenames have been replaced. She said no at the end.

niceguy2322: How are YOU feeling?
typicalgirl623: oh oaky.
typicalgirl623: uhh,, idk>
niceguy2322: XD
typicalgirl623: bored. tired. lonely.
typicalgirl623: haa.
niceguy2322: I know how that feels =/
typicalgirl623: which one?
niceguy2322: Lonely lol
typicalgirl623: why lol?
niceguy2322: Idk...
typicalgirl623: okay?
niceguy2322: haha.
niceguy2322: Just lonely I guess.
typicalgirl623: oh. i'm sorry.
typicalgirl623: maybe you could steal chrissy from bill ;]
niceguy2322: Na, I don't like her, and if I did, I don't like hurting my friends.
niceguy2322: I like somebody else - not her.
typicalgirl623: who??
typicalgirl623: maybe i can hook you two up.
typicalgirl623:
niceguy2322: You. =)
niceguy2322: Sorry if that was a little alkward =/
niceguy2322: You can just tell me to shut up - lol
typicalgirl623: haha its okay.
niceguy2322: =)
niceguy2322: Seems like everybody likes you these days - lol
typicalgirl623: yeah they really do..
typicalgirl623: why in the world am i so loveable..
niceguy2322: There is a lot of reasons
niceguy2322: But I don't wana name em all because my fingers will hurt =/
typicalgirl623: huh?
niceguy2322: haha
typicalgirl623: why would your fingers hurt?
niceguy2322: Because there are alot of reasons.
niceguy2322: XD
typicalgirl623: but what does that have to do with your fingers..?
niceguy2322: Because I would be typeing so much
niceguy2322: =)
typicalgirl623: oh.
typicalgirl623: HAHA i get it now.
typicalgirl623: but wouldn't you be typing as much as usual?
typicalgirl623: i mean it wouldn't make a differnece
typicalgirl623: but if you choose not to okay
niceguy2322: huh?
niceguy2322: Now I am confused
niceguy2322: lol
typicalgirl623: i was just saying, saying all the reasons wouldn't be typing more than usual i would suspect. but if you don't wanna say them its okay
niceguy2322: Would you like me to name em?
typicalgirl623: sure.
niceguy2322: Ok
niceguy2322: Here goes!
niceguy2322: Cute - Funny - Nice - Shmexy you have a good sence of humor and you are very pretty =)
niceguy2322: I am sure that that wasn't the first time you heard that.
typicalgirl623: haha yeah...
niceguy2322: XD
typicalgirl623: wait
typicalgirl623: whats 'shmexy..?'
niceguy2322: Sexy.
niceguy2322: XD
niceguy2322: Sorry if I made you fell alkward....
niceguy2322: =/
typicalgirl623: oh its okay.
niceguy2322: feel*
niceguy2322: Wow.
niceguy2322: That was interesting.
niceguy2322: lol
typicalgirl623: uh huh.
niceguy2322: I understand that you don'y like me, but can we still be friends?
typicalgirl623: uh yeah. duh.
typicalgirl623: i don't just totally forget people.
niceguy2322: hahaha.
typicalgirl623: i'm not that mean..
typicalgirl623: aha
niceguy2322: XD
niceguy2322: Haha - bill did one thing wrong.
typicalgirl623: huh?
niceguy2322: He let go of you =/
niceguy2322: Not very smart.
typicalgirl623: ohhh.
typicalgirl623: well i mean we're friends now. and we've both moved on.
niceguy2322: yeah.
typicalgirl623: so it's all good now.
typicalgirl623: now that we don't hate each other.
typicalgirl623: haa.
niceguy2322: hahaha.
typicalgirl623: yeah that was a great time..
typicalgirl623: sike.
niceguy2322: lmao.
niceguy2322: Did thomas ask you out, too?
typicalgirl623: what?
niceguy2322: Miers.
typicalgirl623: no one asked me out..
niceguy2322: haha
niceguy2322: Will you go out with me?
niceguy2322: longshot =/
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sickening to watch. THIS makes me cringe more than any scary movie
 
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Kabane52,

I'll go easy on you since you're new here.

This "How NOT to talk to a female" thing is elementary dude.

If it were math,it'd be like 1+1=2.

Usually most guys come here to learn something,but if you want to teach,fine. Have at it,but at least give us some kind of revelation or insight.

This thread is INSULTING to the forum.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LOFL, I just joined to post this cause some guy asked me to. Take it off if you wish.
 
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That conversation contained a lot of insight!

I bet that girl is totally inlove with niceguy now.
I can't wait to try this, I'm going to get laid heaps; that guy was so ****y and funny!
 
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Ahh. My Soul. My Soul Is Actually Crying With Disgust.
 
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That's probably word for word an IM conversation I would've had 8 years ago. Oh my fvck how perspective changes things...
 
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Thats the most dumbest, pathetic **** I've ever read!!!

Dude put the pvssie on a pedestal...a high ass pedestal and yet wasnt confident in his approach.

He shouldve came off this way...He wouldve got a quickier yes or no instead of this drained out convo boosting this girl's ego....

Kabane52 said:
Look at this IM conversation that was passed onto me. All names and screenames have been replaced. She said no at the end.

niceguy2322: How are YOU feeling?
typicalgirl623: oh oaky.
typicalgirl623: uhh,, idk>
niceguy2322: uhh, idk....elaborate?
typicalgirl623: bored. tired. lonely.
typicalgirl623: haa.
niceguy2322: bored huh? well so am I, let's go out for some drinks....

Cased closed she either wouldve went along with the plan or shoot niceguy2322 down.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Just give the man some advice, he already feels bad for screwing up she. Save the editorializing
 
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