"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How Normal is Fighting in LTR?

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DJDamage

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I noticed that in LTR couples who have been together for a long time tend to fight and bicker with each other. On Avg how many fights do people actually get into which is considered normal? everyday? once a month? once every 6month/year??

There is no way even if you are a Don Juan that you can avoid having a tiff with a woman and not be angry at her or shouting back and fourth. I also heard that sometimes after a long fight when couples reconsile through "make up sex" it brings them closer together. Any truths to that? any thoughts?

As well how do you win in a fights? do you actually win some and lose some? how do you gain respect through that? can you actually let a woman get away with bad behaviour when she acts this way as a result of a fight?!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ricky

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I dated a girl for 3 years and we started to fight more and more. Towards the end it was every night we went out we would have a small blowup about something.

If it isn't all the time I wouldn't be concerned.

It is good to stand your ground at times.
 
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every couple fights every now and then and that is normal, but daily basis is bad news.
 
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Agreed, if it's happening on a daily basis (or almost a daily basis), it's not good. For me, it normally happens about 1 or 2 times a month. I can handle that.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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