"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How Normal is Fighting in LTR?

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DJDamage

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I noticed that in LTR couples who have been together for a long time tend to fight and bicker with each other. On Avg how many fights do people actually get into which is considered normal? everyday? once a month? once every 6month/year??

There is no way even if you are a Don Juan that you can avoid having a tiff with a woman and not be angry at her or shouting back and fourth. I also heard that sometimes after a long fight when couples reconsile through "make up sex" it brings them closer together. Any truths to that? any thoughts?

As well how do you win in a fights? do you actually win some and lose some? how do you gain respect through that? can you actually let a woman get away with bad behaviour when she acts this way as a result of a fight?!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I dated a girl for 3 years and we started to fight more and more. Towards the end it was every night we went out we would have a small blowup about something.

If it isn't all the time I wouldn't be concerned.

It is good to stand your ground at times.
 
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every couple fights every now and then and that is normal, but daily basis is bad news.
 
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Agreed, if it's happening on a daily basis (or almost a daily basis), it's not good. For me, it normally happens about 1 or 2 times a month. I can handle that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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