"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How Normal is Fighting in LTR?

DJDamage

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I noticed that in LTR couples who have been together for a long time tend to fight and bicker with each other. On Avg how many fights do people actually get into which is considered normal? everyday? once a month? once every 6month/year??

There is no way even if you are a Don Juan that you can avoid having a tiff with a woman and not be angry at her or shouting back and fourth. I also heard that sometimes after a long fight when couples reconsile through "make up sex" it brings them closer together. Any truths to that? any thoughts?

As well how do you win in a fights? do you actually win some and lose some? how do you gain respect through that? can you actually let a woman get away with bad behaviour when she acts this way as a result of a fight?!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ricky

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I dated a girl for 3 years and we started to fight more and more. Towards the end it was every night we went out we would have a small blowup about something.

If it isn't all the time I wouldn't be concerned.

It is good to stand your ground at times.
 

penkitten

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every couple fights every now and then and that is normal, but daily basis is bad news.
 

Desdinova

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Agreed, if it's happening on a daily basis (or almost a daily basis), it's not good. For me, it normally happens about 1 or 2 times a month. I can handle that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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