"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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How non-online "DJ"s get (almost) any chicks they want

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Originally posted by playasupreme
dillin: then just accept yourself as the loser you were born
haha nice comeback, next time actually have something to say instead of something a first grader would say. Maybe thats because you actually have nothing to say to me, otherwise you would say it, atleast I hope so.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Master Homer
Perhaps, but the desire and will to be better at something is vastly more important. The only thing your genes do is direct construction of proteins, and do so almost completely based on environmental conditions.
Are you racist or something? Are you trying to say blacks are not motivated thats why there lands and people have not yet advanced to something comparable to Japan of the Western lands?

Also there is always ways around genetics. Don't like your hair color? Die it. Don't like your eye color? Wear contacts.
I see what your saying but in no way you are altering any type of genetic makeup by doing these things.

A guy who has a pimping personality which was genetic can teach a young grasshopper the basics all the way to the advanced levels of being a ladies man.
I think stuff like that is only learned. Nature has set a way for us to mate, we don't need "pimps" to teach humans to mate but I see what your saying.

The problem is most guys hide there sexuality and are afraid of it.

BTW sorry for the multiple posts
 

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You're right... All is learned but could it be learned by themselves?
 

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Originally posted by tactic
You're right... All is learned but could it be learned by themselves?
All is not learned, some things are innate and instinctive.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think Amog said it best in relation to "naturals" doing things unconciously and those who have learned knowing what's going on because they have studied. I also feel however that someone can be a bit of both.

Oh, and btw Dillin: you know you can edit your posts rather than posting again and again, then apologizing like a b*tch would, right? Shut up and listen punk 'cause you don't know jack. All you do is quote other posters and talk smack. THATS what first graders do dummy.:D LOLOLOLOL
 

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Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
All is not learned, some things are innate and instinctive.
That's true, but what could be some innative things that cannot be learned? Maybe looks? Voice?
 

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Gotta' bump this one
 

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Looks can be helped. Find some pivots(girl friends) to help you get dressed and cleaned up. Tell her you need help being more attractive to women. They love this ****. When it comes to voice, all you can do is work on tonality, and smoothen out the delivery.
 

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Originally posted by tactic
That's true, but what could be some innative things that cannot be learned? Maybe looks? Voice?
Amongst other things yes..

And AMOG is right, one of the best tricks in the book is getting female friends to help tidy you up
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Amog
Looks can be helped. Find some pivots(girl friends) to help you get dressed and cleaned up. Tell her you need help being more attractive to women. They love this ****. When it comes to voice, all you can do is work on tonality, and smoothen out the delivery.
Yeah, play on a woman's need to change a man. Be careful what you take on. They could dress you up in something that they would like but is completely not your style and that could inhibit your form.
 

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I just did a two-day research on genes, nature/nurtur, and on the chromosomes. Any of you guys know anything about them?
 

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Do you guys think it's possible to mix the genes of one person with the other?
 

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Originally posted by tactic
Do you guys think it's possible to mix the genes of one person with the other?
That happens everytime a kid is made...... and yes genesplicing is and should be possible...
 

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But it"ll take long to split them up wouldn"t it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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