"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How non-online "DJ"s get (almost) any chicks they want

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Originally posted by playasupreme
dillin: then just accept yourself as the loser you were born
haha nice comeback, next time actually have something to say instead of something a first grader would say. Maybe thats because you actually have nothing to say to me, otherwise you would say it, atleast I hope so.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Master Homer
Perhaps, but the desire and will to be better at something is vastly more important. The only thing your genes do is direct construction of proteins, and do so almost completely based on environmental conditions.
Are you racist or something? Are you trying to say blacks are not motivated thats why there lands and people have not yet advanced to something comparable to Japan of the Western lands?

Also there is always ways around genetics. Don't like your hair color? Die it. Don't like your eye color? Wear contacts.
I see what your saying but in no way you are altering any type of genetic makeup by doing these things.

A guy who has a pimping personality which was genetic can teach a young grasshopper the basics all the way to the advanced levels of being a ladies man.
I think stuff like that is only learned. Nature has set a way for us to mate, we don't need "pimps" to teach humans to mate but I see what your saying.

The problem is most guys hide there sexuality and are afraid of it.

BTW sorry for the multiple posts
 

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You're right... All is learned but could it be learned by themselves?
 

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Originally posted by tactic
You're right... All is learned but could it be learned by themselves?
All is not learned, some things are innate and instinctive.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I think Amog said it best in relation to "naturals" doing things unconciously and those who have learned knowing what's going on because they have studied. I also feel however that someone can be a bit of both.

Oh, and btw Dillin: you know you can edit your posts rather than posting again and again, then apologizing like a b*tch would, right? Shut up and listen punk 'cause you don't know jack. All you do is quote other posters and talk smack. THATS what first graders do dummy.:D LOLOLOLOL
 

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Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
All is not learned, some things are innate and instinctive.
That's true, but what could be some innative things that cannot be learned? Maybe looks? Voice?
 

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Gotta' bump this one
 

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Looks can be helped. Find some pivots(girl friends) to help you get dressed and cleaned up. Tell her you need help being more attractive to women. They love this ****. When it comes to voice, all you can do is work on tonality, and smoothen out the delivery.
 

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Originally posted by tactic
That's true, but what could be some innative things that cannot be learned? Maybe looks? Voice?
Amongst other things yes..

And AMOG is right, one of the best tricks in the book is getting female friends to help tidy you up
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Amog
Looks can be helped. Find some pivots(girl friends) to help you get dressed and cleaned up. Tell her you need help being more attractive to women. They love this ****. When it comes to voice, all you can do is work on tonality, and smoothen out the delivery.
Yeah, play on a woman's need to change a man. Be careful what you take on. They could dress you up in something that they would like but is completely not your style and that could inhibit your form.
 

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I just did a two-day research on genes, nature/nurtur, and on the chromosomes. Any of you guys know anything about them?
 

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Do you guys think it's possible to mix the genes of one person with the other?
 

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Originally posted by tactic
Do you guys think it's possible to mix the genes of one person with the other?
That happens everytime a kid is made...... and yes genesplicing is and should be possible...
 

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But it"ll take long to split them up wouldn"t it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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