"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How much work is maintaining sosuave?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
CapiCrimini
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really not that much if you know what your doing. Most of it is Money and Time[not time meaning work hours rather waiting slowly for the population of the site to grow little by little.]
Go to "vbulliten.com" and check the pricing. That will tell you how much a site costs. Then look around for a host server and space. That will tell you how much it costs.
I can't give you an accurate number because I don't know all of the prices.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Server space will normally run you about $10 for a nice big site. You can probably get away with anywhere from $1-$5 and still manage a site. A server will normally register a site name for you too... meaning
yourname.whatever for example you could go with sosuave.net... oh...nvm thats taken
Im me for more info... If you just want a forum like this you can get them fro free but they have an add on them, which is no big deal if your not plannign on a huge site or somehting... anyway contact me and I'll tell you specs to your situation as to the furthest of my knowledge.
free-50,000
a few days to a few years.
Sosuave has been around since 98 I belive so thats 6 years to get to this size... with very little advertising, more word of mouth and people just stumbling
~capi crimm
most of those are BS*, find a good programer and learn off of them. You'll remember things a lot better and it becomes more personalized. Plus it's free.
*unless they are college ones or something with backing, i'm talking about the ones offered at BestBuy and in the back of computer stores. They really don't teach you that much...
If you really want to learn a language just go live in the country for a few years without any translators... you'll pick it up. you have to.
MrBond_Age
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50k? Holy cow! How come you get numbers out of your ass and noone ever calls your bull****?Originally posted by Capi
okay... what exactly do you want... If you want a site like this you'll need vbulliten like they said. but there are many free programs that do a decent job...
IM: FoolsGold738
Yahoo:CapiCrimini
[email protected]
or
[email protected]
Server space will normally run you about $10 for a nice big site. You can probably get away with anywhere from $1-$5 and still manage a site. A server will normally register a site name for you too... meaning
yourname.whatever for example you could go with sosuave.net... oh...nvm thats taken
Im me for more info... If you just want a forum like this you can get them fro free but they have an add on them, which is no big deal if your not plannign on a huge site or somehting... anyway contact me and I'll tell you specs to your situation as to the furthest of my knowledge.
free-50,000
a few days to a few years.
Sosuave has been around since 98 I belive so thats 6 years to get to this size... with very little advertising, more word of mouth and people just stumbling
~capi crimm
This place costs at most 1k per month wich is NOT a lot of money considering all the income Allen makes out of it.
yes sosuave is probably more around 1k or less.[more like less]
I was giving a range... meaning from here to there. If you really wanted to go wild you could spend 50k on a site like this. If you really wanted to you could get away with spending nothing on this site. I wasn't pulling that out of my arse, I was telling the range of money you could spend on a site like this.
and no where did I say that price was monthly. I was talking about a longer time then by month for the estimate. 50k a month would be like a new car every month, which unless your rich is pointless, though better then spending it on a website.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Really it would be harder to spend over a k then under it. Mainly because there is a limit to how much you can put into a board like this.
If you just want a forum, you can find free sites like invisionfree and proboards, or you can spend a few bucks for some space then get a phpBB for free. The software for this site vbulliten can cost a pretty penny too. I think it's somewhere around $200, if you want to go all out and actually buy the software from a freesite they can charge a couple thousand for the rights. [meaning you own the thing and can edit the actual code legally]