"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How much work is maintaining sosuave?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
CapiCrimini
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really not that much if you know what your doing. Most of it is Money and Time[not time meaning work hours rather waiting slowly for the population of the site to grow little by little.]
Go to "vbulliten.com" and check the pricing. That will tell you how much a site costs. Then look around for a host server and space. That will tell you how much it costs.
I can't give you an accurate number because I don't know all of the prices.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Server space will normally run you about $10 for a nice big site. You can probably get away with anywhere from $1-$5 and still manage a site. A server will normally register a site name for you too... meaning
yourname.whatever for example you could go with sosuave.net... oh...nvm thats taken
Im me for more info... If you just want a forum like this you can get them fro free but they have an add on them, which is no big deal if your not plannign on a huge site or somehting... anyway contact me and I'll tell you specs to your situation as to the furthest of my knowledge.
free-50,000
a few days to a few years.
Sosuave has been around since 98 I belive so thats 6 years to get to this size... with very little advertising, more word of mouth and people just stumbling
~capi crimm
most of those are BS*, find a good programer and learn off of them. You'll remember things a lot better and it becomes more personalized. Plus it's free.
*unless they are college ones or something with backing, i'm talking about the ones offered at BestBuy and in the back of computer stores. They really don't teach you that much...
If you really want to learn a language just go live in the country for a few years without any translators... you'll pick it up. you have to.
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50k? Holy cow! How come you get numbers out of your ass and noone ever calls your bull****?Originally posted by Capi
okay... what exactly do you want... If you want a site like this you'll need vbulliten like they said. but there are many free programs that do a decent job...
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Server space will normally run you about $10 for a nice big site. You can probably get away with anywhere from $1-$5 and still manage a site. A server will normally register a site name for you too... meaning
yourname.whatever for example you could go with sosuave.net... oh...nvm thats taken
Im me for more info... If you just want a forum like this you can get them fro free but they have an add on them, which is no big deal if your not plannign on a huge site or somehting... anyway contact me and I'll tell you specs to your situation as to the furthest of my knowledge.
free-50,000
a few days to a few years.
Sosuave has been around since 98 I belive so thats 6 years to get to this size... with very little advertising, more word of mouth and people just stumbling
~capi crimm
This place costs at most 1k per month wich is NOT a lot of money considering all the income Allen makes out of it.
yes sosuave is probably more around 1k or less.[more like less]
I was giving a range... meaning from here to there. If you really wanted to go wild you could spend 50k on a site like this. If you really wanted to you could get away with spending nothing on this site. I wasn't pulling that out of my arse, I was telling the range of money you could spend on a site like this.
and no where did I say that price was monthly. I was talking about a longer time then by month for the estimate. 50k a month would be like a new car every month, which unless your rich is pointless, though better then spending it on a website.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Really it would be harder to spend over a k then under it. Mainly because there is a limit to how much you can put into a board like this.
If you just want a forum, you can find free sites like invisionfree and proboards, or you can spend a few bucks for some space then get a phpBB for free. The software for this site vbulliten can cost a pretty penny too. I think it's somewhere around $200, if you want to go all out and actually buy the software from a freesite they can charge a couple thousand for the rights. [meaning you own the thing and can edit the actual code legally]