"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How much time do you spend with your SO

Muppet

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If you are in a LTR? Say you don't live together, how often do you see them?
Or if you live together, or are married, how often do you guys spend time together, not counting the time you are both home and do diff things.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Colossus

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I'm in a LTR of about 4 months. We are both busy with school, and we do a lot of things on our own. She's 21 and Im 25.

I would say on average we hang out 3-5 times per week, usually at night.
 

Adone

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I've been steady with my girlfriend for the last 20 months + or - and we usually see each other every other day for a hour or so. Once or twice a week we spend the afternoon together. We used to hang out together on saturday nights but not anymore.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Aaron B

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If she intiates the contact and comes to me I let her see me when I have free time. Occassionally I limit her access to mix things up.

If she doesn't call or contact me I just lay back and enjoy the time to myself or with friends.

we've been together for 6 months and its going great so far.
 

frivolousz21

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it was moved because that place is a forum of comunism..if its not about something dealing with the negative side of women...it cant be there.


anyways ive been with mine for nearly 8 months..and see her around 5 days a week.
 
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