"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How much time do you spend with your SO

Muppet

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If you are in a LTR? Say you don't live together, how often do you see them?
Or if you live together, or are married, how often do you guys spend time together, not counting the time you are both home and do diff things.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Colossus

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I'm in a LTR of about 4 months. We are both busy with school, and we do a lot of things on our own. She's 21 and Im 25.

I would say on average we hang out 3-5 times per week, usually at night.
 

Adone

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I've been steady with my girlfriend for the last 20 months + or - and we usually see each other every other day for a hour or so. Once or twice a week we spend the afternoon together. We used to hang out together on saturday nights but not anymore.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Aaron B

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If she intiates the contact and comes to me I let her see me when I have free time. Occassionally I limit her access to mix things up.

If she doesn't call or contact me I just lay back and enjoy the time to myself or with friends.

we've been together for 6 months and its going great so far.
 

frivolousz21

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it was moved because that place is a forum of comunism..if its not about something dealing with the negative side of women...it cant be there.


anyways ive been with mine for nearly 8 months..and see her around 5 days a week.
 
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