"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How much time do you spend on sosuave?

how much time per day

  • what, per day? i hardly ever come here

    Votes: 3 11.5%

  • few times a week, checkin the threads out

    Votes: 7 26.9%

  • almost every day, but sometimes forget

    Votes: 6 23.1%

  • i come every day, but dont post much

    Votes: 7 26.9%

  • i come every day, primary objective is to post and educate others with my arcane wisdom

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • every day, read it post it you name it!!!

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  • few times a day, checking discussion, keeping up to date

    Votes: 3 11.5%

  • every half an hour baby, this place rocks

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  • i try not to, but still spend tons of time as a keybord jockie

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  • i live and breeth here

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I come a few times a week. I used to spend 1 hour per day some weeks on here reading as soaking up as much info as possible which excited me. Now I think I'm at a stage where there isn't as much to learn. Every so often there'll be a new interesting (for me) thread to read. Theres always something to learn and apply in the real world.

I've been helped alot since I found this site and now I also think it's important to help out others. Give back something to the new guys. I was a big AFC so if I can change anybody can.

The beauty of doing alot of reading here is that it'll open your eyes to the matrix we live in and your beliefs will change. So my advise is to treat this like an interesting school. Read and study alot online and practise it in the real world.
 
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I come here several times a day. I read over various threads and look for ones that match the issues that I'm currently having in my life.
 
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War Against Betaism

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When I first found it I spent at least 30 minutes a day on it, now with the stupid 10 post limit rule (unless it was taken down without me knowing), I usually just scroll through any of the threads to see if anything catches my eye, and if nothing, I just exit.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I come on here prolly few times a week just to check out different problems people encounter. I have been on here long enough that i know all the tips inside and out but i am infatuated by all the problems guys have with girls. Its a interesting read for me since i love relationship topics.
 
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