"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I come a few times a week. I used to spend 1 hour per day some weeks on here reading as soaking up as much info as possible which excited me. Now I think I'm at a stage where there isn't as much to learn. Every so often there'll be a new interesting (for me) thread to read. Theres always something to learn and apply in the real world.

I've been helped alot since I found this site and now I also think it's important to help out others. Give back something to the new guys. I was a big AFC so if I can change anybody can.

The beauty of doing alot of reading here is that it'll open your eyes to the matrix we live in and your beliefs will change. So my advise is to treat this like an interesting school. Read and study alot online and practise it in the real world.
 
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I come here several times a day. I read over various threads and look for ones that match the issues that I'm currently having in my life.
 
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When I first found it I spent at least 30 minutes a day on it, now with the stupid 10 post limit rule (unless it was taken down without me knowing), I usually just scroll through any of the threads to see if anything catches my eye, and if nothing, I just exit.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I come on here prolly few times a week just to check out different problems people encounter. I have been on here long enough that i know all the tips inside and out but i am infatuated by all the problems guys have with girls. Its a interesting read for me since i love relationship topics.
 
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