"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How much should I weigh?

Mystic

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I used to be 6'1 133 pounds which is sickly skinny. The doctor tested my thyroid and nothing was wrong. Well a year later I am 6'2 and 160 pounds. I dont get shyt all the time for being skinny but occasionaly I do. How much is a good weight at 6 foot 2? I dont th0ink I look THAT skinny. I think 170 or 175 would be a good weight.

Id just like some input.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Legend

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you should be like 180.......i am 6'1" and weigh 180 pounds and have about 5-6% body fat.
 

So pimp its scary

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Wouldn't you be better asking a doctor in person rather then anonymously through the internet???
 

Eternal

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Health and Fitness.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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chim_chim

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I'd want to be about 210 with <10% BF. What matters though is what you want to look like.
 
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