"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How much should I ignore her?

MackDaddySwole31

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So, I've been talking to this girl at my job for the past couple of weeks. I knew she was really attracted to me because of the way she always hangs around me at work, and also because of the way she drops everything when i tell her to come hangout with me. However, I had to punish her, because she has really big ego, and she kept saying little phrases like, "You don't know who you're dealing with", and "don't flatter yourself". I demand respect, and I won't allow a women to think she can talk to me like that, so I started to ignore her. At work I keep it cordial, and only talk to her if it pertains to the job. She's texted me a couple of times, the most recent of which read, "What exactly did i do to you?". I didn't respond, and that was a couple of days ago. I can tell she's really bothered by the lack of attention she's been receiving from me. She goes out of her way to be around me and make conversation. My plan is to wait until she feels like she has no chance with me, and then pick back up as if nothing was ever wrong. However, I also feel like she might just lose interest completely. Also, I don't know how to react if she acts bitter once I start talking to her again. Is my game plan strong enough? Also, are my concerns legit concerns?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SeymourCake

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Ignore her when she does things you do not approve of and give her attention when she does things you do approve of.
 

MountainSlide

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What's with the passive aggressive high school girl games? Ignore her as punishment? A girl says some **** like that to me and I laugh! Because it is probably a joke.. Using negative affirmation? Really? Chick says that to me and I would just be like "I don't know who I'm dealing with? I'm dealing with a dumb little batch." but of course I would just be kidding too because it is funny to joke like that. You even hit it yet?? I would focus more on hittin' it than playing games. Like yeah have your own life, enjoy what you do, don't need to hit it, but want to hit it. If you do it proper, then she'll fall in love with you and you can have all the power.
 

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Dude, you totally missed the mark on that one. Those things she said were practically a written invitation to flirt and play with her.

Her- "you don't know who you're dealing with"
Me- "well from the sound of it, seems like I'm dealing with trouble"

Cheesy? Yes, but they eat that stuff up.
 

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Moved to DJD.

Her : "You don't know who you're dealing with"

Me : "I know damn well what I'm doing." +smirk.

Her : "Don't flatter yourself"

Me : "I'm just saying what you're thinking..." +smirk.

Don't take her remakes seriously. Just play along and have some fun teasing.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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