"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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how much of the DJ bible should you tweak for non_american women?

pikachu_69

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I'm living in an ex-pat city right now abroad at college and there are a lot of american women and women of other nations. I understand the bible tips are mainly targeted at dealing with american women so how much do you need to tweak it for women of other nationalities? American women ikve noticed are very loud and opinionated (not necessarily a bad thing) but I wonder if some of the tactics in the bible need to be toned down for say british, european, russian or latin women etc? If so which parts need to be altered?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dante420 said:
There's a large PUA community in London
Yes, but that doesn't answer my question exactly :) haha

I'm saying the bible is catered for American women but I imagine a lot of the tactics won't work as well on women of other nationalities. What tips need to be toned down or altered?

I understand essentially all women are emotional creatures so that won't change so to speak, but the game playing I imagine changes from traditional nationalities (Arabic, Russian, Chinese) to more independent nationalities (Sweden, Norway etc)
 

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Russian women, traditional? :crackup: There is a phenomenon in Russia where women keep a chump as a cash machine. They let him cop a feel once in a while, and in exchange for this they take advantage of him shamelessly, bleeding him dry. Such guys are called a "pension." They talk about it openly with each other. "I want to buy that bag, but my pension says he doesn't have more money until the end of the month. Can you believe it?" Meanwhile the girl has another, real boyfriend. Russian women are jaded and cynical, which they get from growing up with Russian men. I have heard this from Russian women themselves. With reservation for that it may differ somewhat between different parts of the vast country, I don't know.

But as for your question, I have read the DJ Bible - well, most of it - and I notice that at all times, you have to know the girl you are with. Know when you can and can't do something with her. The teachings of the Bible are not a list to check, with paragraphs added or removed depending on nationality. You are supposed to read the girl so well that you know what to say to her.

And women all over the West are the same as American women, trust me. Not better, not worse. From spending time getting to know the people in certain countries closer I know that there are some differences in general, but for the purposes of this discussion they are irrelevant, so I'll leave that for another day.
 

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Instead of looking at different nationalities look at the different standard of women. Some women have higher standards then others and that means they will be attracted to like minded men. So if you want a high quality woman have high standards. If you want a low quality woman do as the bad boys do.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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But high quality women with low IL still will play games with you, however the differences between the nationalities is far more obvious than it seems.

For instance, if you try NC with Russian women, it may work a bit but because you need to make her come back to you a few times they won't come back maybe more than twice and even then they won't make suggestions to meet up, they'll try to get YOU to do it because they believe the men are the chasers and pursuers and they are the prize to be won. It's engrained in their mindset. How do you tweark NC for women like this?
 
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