"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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how much of the DJ bible should you tweak for non_american women?

pikachu_69

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I'm living in an ex-pat city right now abroad at college and there are a lot of american women and women of other nations. I understand the bible tips are mainly targeted at dealing with american women so how much do you need to tweak it for women of other nationalities? American women ikve noticed are very loud and opinionated (not necessarily a bad thing) but I wonder if some of the tactics in the bible need to be toned down for say british, european, russian or latin women etc? If so which parts need to be altered?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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pikachu_69

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Dante420 said:
There's a large PUA community in London
Yes, but that doesn't answer my question exactly :) haha

I'm saying the bible is catered for American women but I imagine a lot of the tactics won't work as well on women of other nationalities. What tips need to be toned down or altered?

I understand essentially all women are emotional creatures so that won't change so to speak, but the game playing I imagine changes from traditional nationalities (Arabic, Russian, Chinese) to more independent nationalities (Sweden, Norway etc)
 

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Russian women, traditional? :crackup: There is a phenomenon in Russia where women keep a chump as a cash machine. They let him cop a feel once in a while, and in exchange for this they take advantage of him shamelessly, bleeding him dry. Such guys are called a "pension." They talk about it openly with each other. "I want to buy that bag, but my pension says he doesn't have more money until the end of the month. Can you believe it?" Meanwhile the girl has another, real boyfriend. Russian women are jaded and cynical, which they get from growing up with Russian men. I have heard this from Russian women themselves. With reservation for that it may differ somewhat between different parts of the vast country, I don't know.

But as for your question, I have read the DJ Bible - well, most of it - and I notice that at all times, you have to know the girl you are with. Know when you can and can't do something with her. The teachings of the Bible are not a list to check, with paragraphs added or removed depending on nationality. You are supposed to read the girl so well that you know what to say to her.

And women all over the West are the same as American women, trust me. Not better, not worse. From spending time getting to know the people in certain countries closer I know that there are some differences in general, but for the purposes of this discussion they are irrelevant, so I'll leave that for another day.
 

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Instead of looking at different nationalities look at the different standard of women. Some women have higher standards then others and that means they will be attracted to like minded men. So if you want a high quality woman have high standards. If you want a low quality woman do as the bad boys do.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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But high quality women with low IL still will play games with you, however the differences between the nationalities is far more obvious than it seems.

For instance, if you try NC with Russian women, it may work a bit but because you need to make her come back to you a few times they won't come back maybe more than twice and even then they won't make suggestions to meet up, they'll try to get YOU to do it because they believe the men are the chasers and pursuers and they are the prize to be won. It's engrained in their mindset. How do you tweark NC for women like this?
 
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