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Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 19, 2009
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Just wondering.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I get taxed more then 70K a year.Tesl said:No option for more than 100k?![]()
I'm in the same boat as you.(JJ) said:well... college makes me officially be about NEGATIVE 20k/year.
You do realize this is not a financial forum... there are some in here that make millions... it they ever wake up one morning with 100k in there bank accounts, they'll jump through a window.real2 said:I'd be sad too if I was earning 100k+ and still using these forums![]()
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Also, money =\= game. Being in this forum regardless of income is a good thing for a guy. Not knowing the rules of the game, a rich guy will be prime target of gold diggers.amoka said:You do realize this is not a financial forum... there are some in here that make millions... it they ever wake up one morning with 100k in there bank accounts, they'll jump through a window.