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Master Don Juan
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Just wondering.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I get taxed more then 70K a year.Tesl said:No option for more than 100k?![]()
I'm in the same boat as you.(JJ) said:well... college makes me officially be about NEGATIVE 20k/year.
You do realize this is not a financial forum... there are some in here that make millions... it they ever wake up one morning with 100k in there bank accounts, they'll jump through a window.real2 said:I'd be sad too if I was earning 100k+ and still using these forums![]()
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Also, money =\= game. Being in this forum regardless of income is a good thing for a guy. Not knowing the rules of the game, a rich guy will be prime target of gold diggers.amoka said:You do realize this is not a financial forum... there are some in here that make millions... it they ever wake up one morning with 100k in there bank accounts, they'll jump through a window.