"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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how much money did you lose before getting laid?

Goosberry

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Hi everyone,
I have a question today.
how much money did you lose before getting laid?
If it often free, how?

ps. stippers and hoes aren't counted!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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RangerMIke

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Zero. I spend money to have fun, getting laid is a serendipitous benefit that I never expect.
 

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Nothing. How? Don't do expensive activities unless you're only paying for yourself and you want to do it anyways.

Cool women don't act like prostitutes.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Last 3 non-strippers:

1) (HB9 age 19): bought her a drink ($8), and opted to get a hotel ($139) instead of taking her to my apartment which was messy at the time. $146.
2) (HB7 age 40): bought her dinner ($120) and had got nearby hotel in her town ($130). $250.
3) (HB7 age 40): gave her a glass of wine at my apartment. $10.

Average price: $135.33 ($46 + hotel).

Note I opted to get the hotels but if you keep your apartment cleaner than I do (I work at home so sometimes it gets messy with computer equipment) this would have cost much less.
 

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The last girl(barely an HB7) I went out with I spent $20 on and got laid....on the first date!

Typically I buy them 2 drinks and that's it. Every now and then I might buy dinner and drinks.

Years ago after I got divorced I took this HB9 out. She was the first woman I had been out with post-divorce. I was so excited yet clueless. I picked her up at her apartment, gave her a rose, took her out for dinner/drinks at a steak house, and took her to a concert. I probably spent over $100 on her. She stood me up for the 2nd date. haha
But that's ok, that girl has been perpetually single for the last 10yrs, and is now 45, wrinkled up, and post wall. Looks is all she had going for her and now she will be miserable the rest of her life.
 

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Think I spent about $50 last night :).on drinks and food. Second date though, so including the first, probably $80.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I find that if I take a girl out on a nice date at a restaurant it just looks like I'm trying too hard. From the beginning I start planting seeds for casual outings. After I know she has qualities i am interested in I'll get a little more formal with her but not off the get go. How do I get to know someone better at a concert when I can't really talk to them?

To answer the question. Drinks can be expensive. So I'll burn 50-100 on drinks no problem. Money is spent gradually and if things are looking good I'll push to stay longer. If she's not fun I'll make something up and leave.
 
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It should cost about 2-3 times what you spend when you go out alone.
 

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Women make me money; I network through their friends, family, and orbiters. I have bought three businesses over the last few years through women. If you are losing money with any act you take, you are doing it all wrong. Instead, you should be investing your money.
 

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So you saw what cheap dates cost.

Now, here was what the best date of my life cost:

1) Bought her $300 worth of Victorian era clothing for lingerie photo shoot.
2) Spent $1200 on pocket watch with gold chain (which I kept).
3) Bought a $35 string tie.
4) Rented the best Bed and Breakfast in the Nation ($400).
5) We dressed up in 1890's clothing and I took her out for wine, dinner, pizza and coffee ($300) in a small town in Georgia where we could walk everywhere.
6) Small belated Valentine's gifts $40.

$1040 (I kept the pocket watch and string tie but $2275 invested)

Several women we met that night said I looked like Rhett Butler in Gone with the Wind (1939) and she looked like Grace Kelly in High Noon (1951). She said Clark Gable was the handsomest man she ever saw, and I told her Grace Kelly was the most beautiful woman I ever saw, and we proved it. Never in my life did I have sex with a woman 3 straight times with only a few minutes in between. I had planned that date for 3 months and it was worth it.
 

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Wow, interesting facts. Thanks everyone. You guys are awesome!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So you saw what cheap dates cost.

Now, here was what the best date of my life cost:

1) Bought her $300 worth of Victorian era clothing for lingerie photo shoot.
2) Spent $1200 on pocket watch with gold chain (which I kept).
3) Bought a $35 string tie.
4) Rented the best Bed and Breakfast in the Nation ($400).
5) We dressed up in 1890's clothing and I took her out for wine, dinner, pizza and coffee ($300) in a small town in Georgia where we could walk everywhere.
6) Small belated Valentine's gifts $40.

$1040 (I kept the pocket watch and string tie but $2275 invested)

Several women we met that night said I looked like Rhett Butler in Gone with the Wind (1939) and she looked like Grace Kelly in High Noon (1951). She said Clark Gable was the handsomest man she ever saw, and I told her Grace Kelly was the most beautiful woman I ever saw, and we proved it. Never in my life did I have sex with a woman 3 straight times with only a few minutes in between. I had planned that date for 3 months and it was worth it.
On my last date I spent about $100,000 on the girl cause I bought her a Maserati
 

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On my last date I spent about $100,000 on the girl cause I bought her a Maserati
Wow, you equate spending $1000 with buying her a Maserati? That's like calling $1 a $100 bill.

Will you tell us your salary and how much you spend on a date? I'll bet you work more hours per date than I do.

Seriously, get a job. Working isn't that bad.
 
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