"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How much is an Emergency room visit for std checkup?

I love Hyori Lee

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Hi.

This isn't a trolling thread or anything. I really want to know. I live in California and my insurance is HSA, which is practically "no" insurance.

After sleeping with a girl, I had some reactions a couple days later. On Sunday, I went to a hospital to check whether I had any STDS or anything like that.

Since it was a Sunday, they put me in the Emergency Room area to take tests.

1. They took my blood pressure.
2. They did a urethral test or something. It means that they placed something that goes in your p8nis hole. It hurts like hell.
3. They gave me a prescription of antibiotics to take.
4. They said that they would tell me the results in about a week.

Being as stupid as I was, I went in the emergency room, and I don't think I have insurance. How much is this going to cost me? Has anyone had experience with this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I love Hyori Lee

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Lord Shinra said:
Did you bag?
I did bag.

But I used ultra-thin. It came off.

Then I added another one.

And then that one came off.

Needless to say, I will never use "ultra-thin" again and I will never call her again. I hear that most of the stds can be cured. The only two that can't be cured are herpes and HIV. Luckily, no instances of herpes so far, and it's been 7 days.
 

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Dont use ultra thin. Use the standard ones (like lubricated, ribbed whatever. Avoid lambskin), they're generally better IMO.

But with the procedures at the hospital, I would say $300(hopefully less) plus whatever your medication costs would be. Try going to a Wal Mart, maybe you can get that medicine for the 4 bucks they charge.

Good luck man.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I love Hyori Lee said:
After sleeping with a girl, I had some reactions a couple days later.
Doesn't it take more than a few days for reactions to occur? Isn't it more likely that if you have STD symptoms now, it is from a previous sexual encounter?

:confused:
 

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Hey homie, I've been there. It blows. You might have over reacted a bit. STD's aren't like snake bites where you need to rush to the hospital before your dyck falls off. I'm not sure how much your bill will be, but it probably won't be cheap...

So, next time you look up 'california state free health clinic std' or 'california state health clinic std' online for your area, call to get their hours and walked in their next business day. They usually are first come first serve walk in appointments.. I'm sure your state has one. These clinics are set up for lower income people to get tested for STD's etc... Try a google search on your city, state and std prevention clinic. The cost for meds and checkup is probably like $20 (at least it is where I live ;) ) So, next time something like this happens, you know you don't need to rush to the emergency room. Lord knows I was stressing out a few times during my some of my peak sexually active times in 2005 and part of 2006.
 

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I love Hyori Lee said:
It ended up costing $1005 dollars at O Connor Hospital. This blows.
my god thats a lot of money
how many std tests did they do on you?
 

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1K?........that's cheap, I was gonna guess 3 grand. don't ever go to emergency unless you are dying, insurance won't even cover emergency unless you are in a life threating situation.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Aren't there clinics that do this for free?
 
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