"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How much does her hair color matter to you guys?

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I feel like when it comes to white girls, redheads are the best and supreme awesome.

Blondes are a very close second.

A brunette has to be a 10 for me to even consider giving her my time because brown and dark hair just looks awful on white women. That and most brunettes are evil because they know they are inferior in the white world compared to a blonde or redhead.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I agree with that, for the most part. I'm not going to choose someone based on hair color, it's not a deal breaker or anything.
I have a weakness for redheads, but I've never met one that I thought would be suitable for a LTR - either because of personality or because they were already married. I do sometimes go out of my way to flirt with some girls, just because they have red hair though.

Next preference is brunette, followed by blondes. But like I say, it doesn't really matter.
 

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Blonds, then red, then brunette. I never did like redheads most of my life but they have grown on me.
 

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Doesn't matter really but my preference in women tend to be Mediterranean so typically the girls I usually like are brunette and have dark eyes.
 

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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red > blonde > brunette, I like the aesthetic in general, not because of the rarity. but in general a girl can look good with hair of any color, the color is just a cherry on top, the style is what really matters when it comes to hair

I actually hate it when girls dye their hair though, but I accept that you can't tell a girl what to do with her life, so I just take it as a red flag of attention seeking if she's got like neon hair or it changes color monthly or something and ignore it aside from joking around about it or whatever
 

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Red head=red bush=juicy and always ready. Enough said.
 

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I actually hate it when girls dye their hair though, but I accept that you can't tell a girl what to do with her life
The vast majority of girls color their hair though, whether it be to change it completely, add highlights, or dye the tips. Even brunettes often change to different shade of brown.
 

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Your thread history is concerning, you only ever talk about hair or skin colour or "white girls". Do you actually get laid or just watch porn then come here to ask nonsense?
 

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The vast majority of girls color their hair though, whether it be to change it completely, add highlights, or dye the tips. Even brunettes often change to different shade of brown.
oh yeah I know, it's like how there are loads of guys that prefer girls who look good without makeup and don't wear it often but good luck with that lmao. I don't really care unless the hair looks bad (ugly color, unfitting with her appearance, etc.) or screams attention wh*re/crazy feminist or just generally looks obviously fake

the funniest thing for me is that I figured that it was a dumbass slippery slope fallacy to assume that just because a girl likes to attention seek with hot pink hair or something that she craves attention from other people... but that theory has been proven right a whole bunch of times, so now I definitely see a huge connection between the color chosen/frequency of dying and being an attention wh*re that will wreck your relationship lol (it's not 100% though, like 60-80%)

but then again, one could also argue that a girl who does X (X being anything you mentioned not liking) all the time knowing that you don't particularly care for it, doesn't care about you very much, and that would be the true cause of any relationship issues
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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