How much does career in a woman matter??

[bigdave17]

can a chick be good girlfriend material - intelligent, classy, loyal, decent with finances, family oriented, etc...even being say a bartender/waitress??

Am i stupid to look primarily for a career professional woman?

 

[spinich]

Oh no another dumbsh*t Dave thread....

 

[bigdave17]

Oh no another dumbsh*t Dave thread....

this is a very good thread

 

[spinich]

Uh huh.....

 

[zekko]

Am i stupid to look primarily for a career professional woman?

As picky as you are, I wouldn't be looking to add more qualifications to look for.
As long as she makes enough money to take care of her own business (her own car, insurance, spending money) I'd be happy.
You make enough to take care of the living arrangements should you get together.

I'd be wary of a bartender though, and maybe even a waitress. Bartender is like one step up from stripper in my estimation, and the bartender probably gets hit on more often. I wouldn't demand a professional though - if she is, it's a bonus.

 

[devilkingx2]

Depends on what you want.

If you don't intend to pay for everything you want a woman who makes a decent income for whatever lifestyle you plan to have

But right now i don't want a woman with no free time that I see once a week and masturbate 85.7142857% of the time. so I'd be wary of dating a girl who's a doctor or lawyer or something.

 

[bigdave17]

As picky as you are, I wouldn't be looking to add more qualifications to look for.
As long as she makes enough money to take care of her own business (her own car, insurance, spending money) I'd be happy.
You make enough to take care of the living arrangements should you get together.

I'd be wary of a bartender though, and maybe even a waitress. Bartender is like one step up from stripper in my estimation, and the bartender probably gets hit on more often. I wouldn't demand a professional though - if she is, it's a bonus.

so can a girl with a bs job making say 20K still have all the traits i want?

 

[spinich]

Highly unlikely.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Am i stupid to look primarily for a career professional woman?

 

[zekko]

so can a girl with a bs job making say 20K still have all the traits i want?

A big @ss and a fit body?

 

[Chi Town]

Guys can we please stop entertaining his madness, why must we continue to do this to ourselves lol

 

[bigdave17]

A big @ss and a fit body?

that's obviously a yes, I mean like her being super sweet, classy, intelligence, loyal, loving, great mom and housewife, etc...

 

[spinich]

I am done. No more supporting this shi*stains threads. It gets beyond frustrating. Even negative attention is still attention and Dave lives for this validation.

 

[zekko]

that's obviously a yes, I mean like her being super sweet, classy, intelligence, loyal, loving, great mom and housewife, etc...

They don't need money to be any of those things.

 

[Chi Town]

I am done. No more supporting this shi*stains threads. It gets beyond frustrating. Even negative attention is still attention and Dave lives for this validation.

Guys on here swear up and down that there tired of his threads but he still manages to get 4-5 page threads, meanwhile, guys who actually need help get ignored.

 

[Spaz]

Guys can we please stop entertaining his madness, why must we continue to do this to ourselves lol

It's not madness.

Some men are highly functional in other areas of their lives but are not socially adaptive.

Men who are highly rational and deals in databases doesn't understand that most people are not rational and are influenced by emotional needs when making a decision on happiness.

They are born into it.

People with Asperger's or a man who is a highly intelligent intellectual will exhibit the same as Dave.

 

[lamath]

It's not madness.

Some men are highly functional in other areas of their lives but are not socially adaptive.

Men who are highly rational and deals in databases doesn't understand that most people are not rational and are influenced by emotional needs when making a decision on happiness.

They are born into it.

People with Asperger's or a man who is a highly intelligent intellectual will exhibit the same as Dave.

Been asking if he had some high functioning autism a few time got no answers yet and ofc i can see a cultural difference thats might be part of it

 

[Spaz]

Been asking if he had some high functioning autism a few time got no answers yet and ofc i can see a cultural difference thats might be part of it

People just need to be compassionate and understanding of his nature.

It will be hard for him, but to his credit he is trying his best with all these threads to make sense of something that comes easily for us yet remains elusive to him.

 

[Spaz]

can a chick be good girlfriend material - intelligent, classy, loyal, decent with finances, family oriented, etc...even being say a bartender/waitress??

In my experiences, yes they can Dave.

Am i stupid to look primarily for a career professional woman?

No its not stupid but it's ill advised to think that all professional women are worthy of being a girlfriend.

The only qualifications that is required is whether a woman can be accepting of your frame and be immersed into it.

 

[lamath]

can a chick be good girlfriend material - intelligent, classy, loyal, decent with finances, family oriented, etc...even being say a bartender/waitress??

Am i stupid to look primarily for a career professional woman?

yes i dont think it should be a qualifying factor, intelligence, values, hard working etc are way more important imo.

Lots of career or highly educated women are just too entitle and demanding for my taste, but is good one also exists.