This is a bit of a tangent, but anyway...Francisco, is this a serious question or are you busting my balls...?? Heck you didn´t register yesterday, did you? Society has changed, but neither biological nor evolutionary imperatives have changed the slightest bit. That enough in a nutshell?Francisco d'Anconia said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How much do you share with your parents about your love life?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Ahhh, Russia....Rudra said:
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
Holy Jeebus!
Are you seriously saying that the the behaviour of women hasn't changed in the last 30 years, especially when it comes to women and their perspective of the world?
Are you seriously saying that the the behaviour of women hasn't changed in the last 30 years, especially when it comes to women and their perspective of the world?
Guys, have you been smoking something over there???Centaurion said:
Or is there genuine interest in this question?
We might make this a separate thread. Actually would be interesting. How much of modern women´s mental make up is instilled by modern (!) society and how much is hard wired by evolution? Or in other words - how much can Casanova, Weininger (!), Nietzsche, Schopenhauer, Lermontov and all the others tell us about women and their nature? Can they at all? I´d bet my left nut that they can tell us everything... more than we ever would want to know even. But ok lets discuss that.
My experience dealing with people at the international level is that middle age men from Russia (born and raised there) are EXTREMELY alpha.Rudra said:
That being said, I agree about being honest from the beginng. I don't phuck around. I tell them straight up what I want and don't want. Even if I look like an azs in their eyes.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Pssssstttt.... Russia......Centaurion said:
