"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How much do you share with your parents about your love life?

Rudra

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
So women haven't changed over that time frame?
This is a bit of a tangent, but anyway...Francisco, is this a serious question or are you busting my balls...?? Heck you didn´t register yesterday, did you? Society has changed, but neither biological nor evolutionary imperatives have changed the slightest bit. That enough in a nutshell?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Rudra said:
This is a bit of a tangent, but anyway...Francisco, is this a serious question or are you busting my balls...?? Heck you didn´t register yesterday, did you? Society has changed, but neither biological nor evolutionary imperatives have changed the slightest bit. That enough in a nutshell?
Ahhh, Russia....
 

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Holy Jeebus!

Are you seriously saying that the the behaviour of women hasn't changed in the last 30 years, especially when it comes to women and their perspective of the world?
 

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Centaurion said:
Holy Jeebus!

Are you seriously saying that the the behaviour of women hasn't changed in the last 30 years, especially when it comes to women and their perspective of the world?
Guys, have you been smoking something over there???
Or is there genuine interest in this question?
We might make this a separate thread. Actually would be interesting. How much of modern women´s mental make up is instilled by modern (!) society and how much is hard wired by evolution? Or in other words - how much can Casanova, Weininger (!), Nietzsche, Schopenhauer, Lermontov and all the others tell us about women and their nature? Can they at all? I´d bet my left nut that they can tell us everything... more than we ever would want to know even. But ok lets discuss that.
 

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Rudra said:
I tried to discuss DJ stuff with my dad some time... Dad is definitely alpha, successful in business as well as in sports and he definately had his share of babes. Been married now to mom for 25 years and they are still happy together although mom is a very strong dominant character but dad doesn´t take shyt from her nor from anybody, never.

Complete and utter failure... I got the "Let me tell you, you have to be completely open and honest when entering a relationship" speech and the "your conception of women makes me worried" talk, was called manipulative and misguided..

Typica text book example of a natural who never analyzed his own ways and when confronted with them does not only not recognize them, but criticises them harshly...
My experience dealing with people at the international level is that middle age men from Russia (born and raised there) are EXTREMELY alpha.

That being said, I agree about being honest from the beginng. I don't phuck around. I tell them straight up what I want and don't want. Even if I look like an azs in their eyes.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Centaurion said:
Holy Jeebus!

Are you seriously saying that the the behaviour of women hasn't changed in the last 30 years, especially when it comes to women and their perspective of the world?
Pssssstttt.... Russia...... :whistle:
 
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