"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How much do you get laid in a year?

How many different women did you bed?

  • None

    Votes: 12 33.3%

  • One

    Votes: 1 2.8%

  • Two

    Votes: 4 11.1%

  • Three

    Votes: 8 22.2%

  • Four

    Votes: 3 8.3%

  • Five

    Votes: 1 2.8%

  • Six

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Seven

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Ten to 15

    Votes: 3 8.3%

  • more than 20

    Votes: 4 11.1%
  • Total voters
    36
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OK, really simple.

Last year, counting until Jan 1 2010, how many women have you had sex with?

I don't want anyone to do hor logic here, but lets allow this - if last year as an anomaly, then put your average of last 2 years. so if 2008 was 2 and 2009 was 10 then you got 6.



ONLY VAGINAL AND ANAL SEX COUNT. NO BJS
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I put my penis in three different vaginas, had oral sex with four others, and had a few other encounters that didn't go past making out and touching genitals. Of the ones I had oral sex with, two of them wanted sex, but I declined.

In the first event, the condom broke as I was putting it on, and I didn't want to stick it in raw dog... I'd just met her, she had a reputation for being slutty (no offense meant), and she was already telling me to stick it in without a condom... I was afraid of STDs or pregnancy.

With the second one, I was tired and had been drinking, and my **** wouldn't get hard enough.

With the third one, I kept getting LMR, and persisting anyway. I got up to the point where I had a condom on my **** and had it up to her, but I sensed that she didn't want to do it. I asked her, and she said she didn't want to.

I probably only had sex on 50 days last year, compared to daily the years before, when I was in relationships. I'm going to get a girlfriend now, mostly for steady, condomless sex.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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at least i conquered my one-itis! even though i refuse to let her fade out
 
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i mean i'd rather **** other girls around her but im keeping her as a friend **** it
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ScottS said:
a top restaurant and jewelry is not ebuf for them
wtf do they want a car on a initiial date
women are greedy
isko you suck
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If this isn't ironic, you should really stick around here mate. This is a classic AFC attitude and one that really won't help you in life (freakish as it sounds coming from a 17 year old, I suppose). Have a good read of the DJ bible, if you have already, read it again, disect it then do the DJ bootcamp - you'll see results :up:

Hitting the gym on a regime focussing on heavy compound lifts with a goal of putting on mass only speeds up the process.
 
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Adam said:
If this isn't ironic, you should really stick around here mate. This is a classic AFC attitude and one that really won't help you in life (freakish as it sounds coming from a 17 year old, I suppose). Have a good read of the DJ bible, if you have already, read it again, disect it then do the DJ bootcamp - you'll see results :up:

Hitting the gym on a regime focussing on heavy compound lifts with a goal of putting on mass only speeds up the process.
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I suspect that was a troll post, seemed too extreme to be real.
 
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only about 3 chicks

first was my ex gf who I was having steady sex with and broke up with last summer. We are getting back together though, and we still have sex

After I broke up with her I Met this chick at work and started talkin to her. We had sex only one time

Another chick I met at the store. Also only hit it once lol. I declined the second time

All the other girls never went passed touching, making out, or just idle flirting
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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4... None of them were ONS though.... Had $ex with them roughly 200 times (i like the unintetional pun)...
 
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2. One because I'm in a LTR, the other... well... sometimes **** happens when you run into that hot half-asian chick from your psych class.
 
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who are the big players with over 20?

how about some advice? just don't say lowered standards! ;)
 
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I had a girlfriend for most of last year, so 2 in 2009.

1 so far in 2010. Hoping to make it more.:up:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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