"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How much do you get laid in a year?

How many different women did you bed?

  • None

    Votes: 12 33.3%

  • One

    Votes: 1 2.8%

  • Two

    Votes: 4 11.1%

  • Three

    Votes: 8 22.2%

  • Four

    Votes: 3 8.3%

  • Five

    Votes: 1 2.8%

  • Six

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Seven

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Ten to 15

    Votes: 3 8.3%

  • more than 20

    Votes: 4 11.1%
  • Total voters
    36
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Amazing

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OK, really simple.

Last year, counting until Jan 1 2010, how many women have you had sex with?

I don't want anyone to do hor logic here, but lets allow this - if last year as an anomaly, then put your average of last 2 years. so if 2008 was 2 and 2009 was 10 then you got 6.



ONLY VAGINAL AND ANAL SEX COUNT. NO BJS
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I put my penis in three different vaginas, had oral sex with four others, and had a few other encounters that didn't go past making out and touching genitals. Of the ones I had oral sex with, two of them wanted sex, but I declined.

In the first event, the condom broke as I was putting it on, and I didn't want to stick it in raw dog... I'd just met her, she had a reputation for being slutty (no offense meant), and she was already telling me to stick it in without a condom... I was afraid of STDs or pregnancy.

With the second one, I was tired and had been drinking, and my **** wouldn't get hard enough.

With the third one, I kept getting LMR, and persisting anyway. I got up to the point where I had a condom on my **** and had it up to her, but I sensed that she didn't want to do it. I asked her, and she said she didn't want to.

I probably only had sex on 50 days last year, compared to daily the years before, when I was in relationships. I'm going to get a girlfriend now, mostly for steady, condomless sex.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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at least i conquered my one-itis! even though i refuse to let her fade out
 
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i mean i'd rather **** other girls around her but im keeping her as a friend **** it
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ScottS said:
a top restaurant and jewelry is not ebuf for them
wtf do they want a car on a initiial date
women are greedy
isko you suck
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If this isn't ironic, you should really stick around here mate. This is a classic AFC attitude and one that really won't help you in life (freakish as it sounds coming from a 17 year old, I suppose). Have a good read of the DJ bible, if you have already, read it again, disect it then do the DJ bootcamp - you'll see results :up:

Hitting the gym on a regime focussing on heavy compound lifts with a goal of putting on mass only speeds up the process.
 
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Adam said:
If this isn't ironic, you should really stick around here mate. This is a classic AFC attitude and one that really won't help you in life (freakish as it sounds coming from a 17 year old, I suppose). Have a good read of the DJ bible, if you have already, read it again, disect it then do the DJ bootcamp - you'll see results :up:

Hitting the gym on a regime focussing on heavy compound lifts with a goal of putting on mass only speeds up the process.
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I suspect that was a troll post, seemed too extreme to be real.
 
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only about 3 chicks

first was my ex gf who I was having steady sex with and broke up with last summer. We are getting back together though, and we still have sex

After I broke up with her I Met this chick at work and started talkin to her. We had sex only one time

Another chick I met at the store. Also only hit it once lol. I declined the second time

All the other girls never went passed touching, making out, or just idle flirting
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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4... None of them were ONS though.... Had $ex with them roughly 200 times (i like the unintetional pun)...
 
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2. One because I'm in a LTR, the other... well... sometimes **** happens when you run into that hot half-asian chick from your psych class.
 
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who are the big players with over 20?

how about some advice? just don't say lowered standards! ;)
 
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I had a girlfriend for most of last year, so 2 in 2009.

1 so far in 2010. Hoping to make it more.:up:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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