"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How much do you control the game...?

sherineo

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Hey guys to get my thoughts conveyed I am just going to think alou in this post...

I have this girl in my office...she's nice and I'm attracted to her...

But why am I attracted to her....? Definitely she has seduced me at certain level till some extent...

Now when I flirt with her and when she responds ... I really don't know it's her game or it's my game...

Let's say she attracts attention and flirts with other guys as well sometimes...(which I think is natural)

So it seems like It's her game...

Now though here I know I can have her...If I make a litte effort but I don't want to since may be I'm not the seducer here...

My confusion here is real seduction can't happen unless you can't control the game...

So I dont know here if I'm gaming or being gamed...

Mind it, she has a boyfriend...and I have burned my fingers in this game many a times so am quite experienced...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sherineo

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contd...

so what do you think about this sitiuation...

I guess being gamed is not good for a don juan unless he can seduce someone who is really off limits ...here's where you can measure somebody's true skill in the Art of Seduction...

Sherineo
 

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I've been there and done that. I did her, too...In the stairwell at work, in the park, at her house, at my house, in my truck...

And I'll tell you how it was told to me.

Don't sh1t where you eat!

Stay away from girls you work with and see everyday. If it doesn't work out, your stuck with this girl in your life everyday of your work week. It can go south, and then work becomes very uncomfortable.

This will be the only post I make on your thread, and you might want to seriously think about it.
 

sherineo

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I feel you...

see it's not that you have to bed the girl always ...
here I'm purely talking about mental seduction...

"Making girls oneitis about you..."...Pure Power

I'm not talking about Night Club kind of seduction here at all...

I mean how gud somebody's game can be if all you can do is bone a bar / club chick... after a few drinks...thogh not undermining those mines....

But a real SeductionArtist is somebody who can device a startegy for every sitiuation....

u knwo what i mean??
 

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and by the way...

I'll only post once on your thread...was that a sh1t test:D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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