"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How much do you control the game...?

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Hey guys to get my thoughts conveyed I am just going to think alou in this post...

I have this girl in my office...she's nice and I'm attracted to her...

But why am I attracted to her....? Definitely she has seduced me at certain level till some extent...

Now when I flirt with her and when she responds ... I really don't know it's her game or it's my game...

Let's say she attracts attention and flirts with other guys as well sometimes...(which I think is natural)

So it seems like It's her game...

Now though here I know I can have her...If I make a litte effort but I don't want to since may be I'm not the seducer here...

My confusion here is real seduction can't happen unless you can't control the game...

So I dont know here if I'm gaming or being gamed...

Mind it, she has a boyfriend...and I have burned my fingers in this game many a times so am quite experienced...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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contd...

so what do you think about this sitiuation...

I guess being gamed is not good for a don juan unless he can seduce someone who is really off limits ...here's where you can measure somebody's true skill in the Art of Seduction...

Sherineo
 
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I've been there and done that. I did her, too...In the stairwell at work, in the park, at her house, at my house, in my truck...

And I'll tell you how it was told to me.

Don't sh1t where you eat!

Stay away from girls you work with and see everyday. If it doesn't work out, your stuck with this girl in your life everyday of your work week. It can go south, and then work becomes very uncomfortable.

This will be the only post I make on your thread, and you might want to seriously think about it.
 
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I feel you...

see it's not that you have to bed the girl always ...
here I'm purely talking about mental seduction...

"Making girls oneitis about you..."...Pure Power

I'm not talking about Night Club kind of seduction here at all...

I mean how gud somebody's game can be if all you can do is bone a bar / club chick... after a few drinks...thogh not undermining those mines....

But a real SeductionArtist is somebody who can device a startegy for every sitiuation....

u knwo what i mean??
 
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and by the way...

I'll only post once on your thread...was that a sh1t test:D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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