"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How much do you bench press?

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An update to my last thread about this, its been a few months and we've all changed.

Im also referring to your 1RM (1 Rep Max)

EDIT: Damnit I wanted to make a poll but I closed the thread on accident...

Well I did 225x2 legitimately the other day. My last max was 210 and I did that twice also, so I dont really know what my 1RM is, hopefully its around 225, that would be awesome.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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since your last thread i have improved also :p
i think i was 198lbs at 155lbs the last time you made a thread like this
and now i havent bulked any at all :( but my bench press has improved up to 220lbs (100kg) which is quite a lot IMO but my aim at the moment is 264lbs (120kgs) x5 which will take a long time but hopefully i will get it by the end of 2008 and i would also like to reach 170lbs of 180lbs by the end of the year ill see how it goes
 

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I was at 250, but i havent lifted in two weeks. Im hoping to get to 285 by the end of summer, or 315...both seem somwhat plausible.
 

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I weigh 133, have never actually tested my 1RM but those 1RM calculators say mine is 152.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Rep 135 for 10.
But Pec Deck is much better IMO, and I do 60-65 an arm for 7-10.
 

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HandyAndy said:
An update to my last thread about this, its been a few months and we've all changed.

Im also referring to your 1RM (1 Rep Max)

EDIT: Damnit I wanted to make a poll but I closed the thread on accident...

Well I did 225x2 legitimately the other day. My last max was 210 and I did that twice also, so I dont really know what my 1RM is, hopefully its around 225, that would be awesome.

How much do you weigh? I imagine you must be pretty large for 16 years old, if you're benching 210 lb
 

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Around 280, the scale changes everytime I step on it which pissed me off because I never get on official read. I hope to get a 250 max by September
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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HandyAndy said:
120!

Are you serious?






























Are you a girl?

Yeah, I feel like I still need to gain a few pounds :) But my height and my weight are supposed to be good right now..

Since I'm not that tall, i guess I'm not supposed to weigh a lot.

The reason why I can do this, was like months and months of training for this crazy game show called ninja warrior. :/
 

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I haven't done max BP in a while...and now I strictly do narrow grip bench. Last was 205 x 5 at a body weight of ~170. Most I've ever benched for a 1RM, again narrow grip is 260 at a bodywt. of 180.
 

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I suck at benches...I feel like I've plateaued and cant break out of the rut. I'm going to lessen the weight and go for higher reps to try and break out of it. Good idea?
 

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So is Eugene a girl or not?
Either way, SOLID bench mate.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Eugene123 said:
Yeah, I feel like I still need to gain a few pounds :) But my height and my weight are supposed to be good right now..

Since I'm not that tall, i guess I'm not supposed to weigh a lot.

The reason why I can do this, was like months and months of training for this crazy game show called ninja warrior. :/
Yeah, nice numbers dude
 

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I had been benching at 175 pounds then took some time off. I did 1 RM at 185 pounds today, that's 30 pounds more than I weigh. Sweet. :D It's fun to workout. I couldn't wait to get to the gym this morning, I feel very happy when I'm exercising, it's good to just get out there and do something.
 
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225x1 bench
315x2 deadlift
300x3 squat

only the bench is a real 1rm the others are just the highest ive gone
 

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Squat 1RM 405
Deadlift 1RM 325
Bench 1RM 215 (from nearly a year and a half ago)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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