"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how much do girls talk amongst themselves?

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omkara said:
Doesn't it work the other way sometimes too?

What if you're kind of a jerk to a girl on a date and then she goes and tells her friend about the date and the friend says, 'you're not going to talk to him again are you? You deserve better!' Even if she doesn't, lol.

Yeah, it works like that too. I talked my friend out of dating this complete prick that was trying to mooch of her. She deserved better. Works both ways. We also talk about dates that are disasters, like the guy who pulled his know out on the first date and expected it to be worked, or the guy that had bad breath, or the one that would pull the bizrrest of face when he came in to kiss, that really repulsed you. Its all shared with your close friends.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Everything I tell a girl I assume her friends will find out to.
I don't know about a lot of guys but some of my guy friends we talk about girls all the time.
 

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I found out about a lot of my guy friends' sex lives through my ex girlfriend. They tend to be in the know.
 

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Is it just because you NEED to talk and you run out of things to say? I am convinced that's how it works. You talk about what happened to you, and then you don't know what else to say so let's talk about others.

I see it happen a lot with my girls, and I am just glad not to be one, spending hours on pointless convo is suicide.
 

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It's just the way girls are. They talk more than we do. It's actually quite entertaining.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Wonder how the CIA gets away with hiring women if they're so prone to blab?
 

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Amazing said:
Is it just because you NEED to talk and you run out of things to say? I am convinced that's how it works. You talk about what happened to you, and then you don't know what else to say so let's talk about others.
Actually it's more like the conversation starts with "okay so the other day me and (whoever) tried anal" and goes on from there.
 

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I lived with my female cousin last summer, and she would occasionally have some friends over from her job at a coffee shop.

I swear, all these girls would do when they got together was get on Facebook and stalk their guy friends, telling each other who they liked, or sometimes even blatantly who they'd hooked up with. I was pretty shocked at the openness with which they shared things.
 

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So how do you know if they say something bad about you, especially bed skills? If its something bad, someone in the secret network will have a big mouth and blab it out and eventually you will find out.
 

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Fantastic Mr. Fox said:
Wonder how the CIA gets away with hiring women if they're so prone to blab?
Just cause we love to talk doesnt mean we cant keep confidentiality when needed, especially when your career and financial welfare depends on it.

Its like a bit of research I read about once, how a rather high percentage of women have secret bank accounts with savings they dont tel their partners about. When the need arises we can keep shtum, its just a bit of gossip we enjoy ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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JCballin88 said:
I lived with my female cousin last summer, and she would occasionally have some friends over from her job at a coffee shop.

I swear, all these girls would do when they got together was get on Facebook and stalk their guy friends, telling each other who they liked, or sometimes even blatantly who they'd hooked up with. I was pretty shocked at the openness with which they shared things.

Haha I have seen this too. I was with two girls when they got on facebook and it went into "omg he is hot, how did that fugly b!tch get him?! Oh I want him.. oh blah blah blah"

Girls are messed up, seriously, a lot worse than guys in the head department - guys are simple, we want to screw, and as much as possible. That's it. Girls, a lot of crazy comes with em.
 

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My ex would tell her friends about things we would do, and word of what we did would get to my guy friends without my telling them. It can be a little awkward at times.
 
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