"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how much do girls talk amongst themselves?

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omkara said:
Doesn't it work the other way sometimes too?

What if you're kind of a jerk to a girl on a date and then she goes and tells her friend about the date and the friend says, 'you're not going to talk to him again are you? You deserve better!' Even if she doesn't, lol.

Yeah, it works like that too. I talked my friend out of dating this complete prick that was trying to mooch of her. She deserved better. Works both ways. We also talk about dates that are disasters, like the guy who pulled his know out on the first date and expected it to be worked, or the guy that had bad breath, or the one that would pull the bizrrest of face when he came in to kiss, that really repulsed you. Its all shared with your close friends.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Everything I tell a girl I assume her friends will find out to.
I don't know about a lot of guys but some of my guy friends we talk about girls all the time.
 

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I found out about a lot of my guy friends' sex lives through my ex girlfriend. They tend to be in the know.
 

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Is it just because you NEED to talk and you run out of things to say? I am convinced that's how it works. You talk about what happened to you, and then you don't know what else to say so let's talk about others.

I see it happen a lot with my girls, and I am just glad not to be one, spending hours on pointless convo is suicide.
 

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It's just the way girls are. They talk more than we do. It's actually quite entertaining.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Wonder how the CIA gets away with hiring women if they're so prone to blab?
 

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Amazing said:
Is it just because you NEED to talk and you run out of things to say? I am convinced that's how it works. You talk about what happened to you, and then you don't know what else to say so let's talk about others.
Actually it's more like the conversation starts with "okay so the other day me and (whoever) tried anal" and goes on from there.
 

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I lived with my female cousin last summer, and she would occasionally have some friends over from her job at a coffee shop.

I swear, all these girls would do when they got together was get on Facebook and stalk their guy friends, telling each other who they liked, or sometimes even blatantly who they'd hooked up with. I was pretty shocked at the openness with which they shared things.
 

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So how do you know if they say something bad about you, especially bed skills? If its something bad, someone in the secret network will have a big mouth and blab it out and eventually you will find out.
 

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Fantastic Mr. Fox said:
Wonder how the CIA gets away with hiring women if they're so prone to blab?
Just cause we love to talk doesnt mean we cant keep confidentiality when needed, especially when your career and financial welfare depends on it.

Its like a bit of research I read about once, how a rather high percentage of women have secret bank accounts with savings they dont tel their partners about. When the need arises we can keep shtum, its just a bit of gossip we enjoy ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JCballin88 said:
I lived with my female cousin last summer, and she would occasionally have some friends over from her job at a coffee shop.

I swear, all these girls would do when they got together was get on Facebook and stalk their guy friends, telling each other who they liked, or sometimes even blatantly who they'd hooked up with. I was pretty shocked at the openness with which they shared things.

Haha I have seen this too. I was with two girls when they got on facebook and it went into "omg he is hot, how did that fugly b!tch get him?! Oh I want him.. oh blah blah blah"

Girls are messed up, seriously, a lot worse than guys in the head department - guys are simple, we want to screw, and as much as possible. That's it. Girls, a lot of crazy comes with em.
 

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My ex would tell her friends about things we would do, and word of what we did would get to my guy friends without my telling them. It can be a little awkward at times.
 
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