"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How much damage was done here? Cried in front of my LTR

El Payaso

El Payaso

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Personally, I think crying over a dead mouse makes you a big wuss but that is by the point.

IT IS ONLY A BIG DEAL IF YOU MAKE IT A BIG DEAL. Starting a conversation with her about how she saw you crying and what she thinks of you after that only screams of insecurity.

She'll be laughing in the back of her mind like what type of man are you that you not only cried over a dead mouse but you're worried about how she perceives you.

You have to maintain a strong frame and just act like it's no big deal. She will see you don't care about it or what she thinks about you and she will move on.

Draw her into your frame not the other way around.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SgtSplacker

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Wow... I've killed so much stuff in my life I can't even imagine someone having a hard time killing a mouse. When you are doing these type of things it's generally not a bad thing if you have good reason to do it. A mouse in the house spreading disease destroying things is good reason to kill something. His death is justified because he is putting your life in danger.

I know you have heard things like that said before so maybe it doesn't mean much to you. Millions of people have suffered and died from rodent spread disease. Kill the mouse dude...
 
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I killed a fly last Summer and it devastated me.
 
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