"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How much contact....to remain a challenge?

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mecca411

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I'm seeing this girl who lives about 2hrs away. We first met about 2 and a half months ago and we see each other about every week and a half to 2 weeks. Things are going great and I wanna keep them that way.

What's the optimum amount of contact to keep her interest level high? By that I mean, how many times a week should I talk to her on the phone/email between the times that I'm actually in her physical presence. And what's the max amount of time I should spend talking to her on the phone? If it was up to her, we'd talk for an hour every time. What would you suggest? Thanks.

M.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Here's an idea. See and talk to her when you want; because you want. If you are bound by rules you are no better off than you were before you found this site. Free yourself completely. No expectations, no limitations, no rules, just what you want, when you want. Have fun.

Interest isn't going to drop because you're talking to her more. That is something that *some* genius made up because they were under the impression that any girl who got to know them for who they REALLY were, would become turned off. So they came up with this "great idea" to just never be yourself in front of a girl, and constantly hide it by being a 'challenge' so that she never finds out how 'ugly' you really are.

I say fvck it.

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Originally posted by mecca411
I'm seeing this girl who lives about 2hrs away. We first met about 2 and a half months ago and we see each other about every week and a half to 2 weeks. Things are going great and I wanna keep them that way.

What's the optimum amount of contact to keep her interest level high? By that I mean, how many times a week should I talk to her on the phone/email between the times that I'm actually in her physical presence. And what's the max amount of time I should spend talking to her on the phone? If it was up to her, we'd talk for an hour every time. What would you suggest? Thanks.

M.
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How and when you call/email her have absolutely no bearing on a woman's interest level.

If she's really interested in you, none of those things should matter. In fact, none of those things ever do.

Understand that rules like "wait 3 days to call" are just there to give desperate, needy guys time to catch their emotions. Its a way to teach self-control. The rules exist not to influence the woman, but to control the man.

It sounds like in your situation you don't need to be concerned with such things.
 
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