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Bud_Fox
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How much is too much?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Crazy Asian
Master Don Juan
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my parents think that if i can wear it, then it's good.
they don't understand style and fashion at all.
it's not we're poor, but my parents only think that girls are allowed to own more than 5 shirts.
i'm like, "mom, at least buy me enough clothes so that i can go a week wearing something different each day..."
and she's like "well you can just wash them before the other ones get dirty"
me: "-_-"
they think that any shirt over $10 is a waste.
they don't understand style and fashion at all.
it's not we're poor, but my parents only think that girls are allowed to own more than 5 shirts.
i'm like, "mom, at least buy me enough clothes so that i can go a week wearing something different each day..."
and she's like "well you can just wash them before the other ones get dirty"
me: "-_-"
they think that any shirt over $10 is a waste.
I'm assuming you're asian by your name, and yea, i feel you.Crazy Asian said:my parents think that if i can wear it, then it's good.
they don't understand style and fashion at all.
it's not we're poor, but my parents only think that girls are allowed to own more than 5 shirts.
i'm like, "mom, at least buy me enough clothes so that i can go a week wearing something different each day..."
and she's like "well you can just wash them before the other ones get dirty"
me: "-_-"
they think that any shirt over $10 is a waste.
Asian here as well, and its a absolute ***** to get them to buy me clothes. I have finally swapped my wardrobe out now so i'm ok with it. I'd like more but...eh, its good enough. I'll buy more when i have money of my own.
I think that with a lot of asian parents, just nag like a b**** and they'll give in a bit, if you know what i am saying.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Since I moved out on my own a little more than four years ago I greatly expanded my wardrobe. I have filled two full closets and have quite a few boxes of older, not worn clothes.
In my not so humble opinion... you can never have too many clothes.
In my not so humble opinion... you can never have too many clothes.
decadentdestruction
Don Juan
alot is never enough in my book , I like to follow trends in fashion , and keep up with the times, what I do with my old clothes or things that are not in style, I donate to charity , ex salvation army or goodwill, or when I go to mexico on vacation , I give my stuff to my cousins who can't afford what I buy
alnite
Don Juan
One.
Loin cloth.
Loin cloth.
2 pairs of casual brown shoes
2 pairs of casual black shoes
2 pairs of tennis shoes
5 pairs of jeans
2 pairs of cargo pants
1 columbia winter jacket
1 casual brown jacket
1 casual black jacket
10 hoodies
10 polos
10 t-shirts
various undershirts
bunch of shorts, etc etc.
2 pairs of casual black shoes
2 pairs of tennis shoes
5 pairs of jeans
2 pairs of cargo pants
1 columbia winter jacket
1 casual brown jacket
1 casual black jacket
10 hoodies
10 polos
10 t-shirts
various undershirts
bunch of shorts, etc etc.
DonGorgon
Master Don Juan
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- Nov 28, 2007
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- 102
IM very picky so i have a few thing s that i really like i never by anything that i dont love... I tend to stock up on nice clothes and shoes when i see them so when i have a date i dont have to scrabble and rush to find the perfect shirt and shoes...
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.