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Bud_Fox
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How much is too much?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Crazy Asian
Master Don Juan
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my parents think that if i can wear it, then it's good.
they don't understand style and fashion at all.
it's not we're poor, but my parents only think that girls are allowed to own more than 5 shirts.
i'm like, "mom, at least buy me enough clothes so that i can go a week wearing something different each day..."
and she's like "well you can just wash them before the other ones get dirty"
me: "-_-"
they think that any shirt over $10 is a waste.
they don't understand style and fashion at all.
it's not we're poor, but my parents only think that girls are allowed to own more than 5 shirts.
i'm like, "mom, at least buy me enough clothes so that i can go a week wearing something different each day..."
and she's like "well you can just wash them before the other ones get dirty"
me: "-_-"
they think that any shirt over $10 is a waste.
I'm assuming you're asian by your name, and yea, i feel you.Crazy Asian said:my parents think that if i can wear it, then it's good.
they don't understand style and fashion at all.
it's not we're poor, but my parents only think that girls are allowed to own more than 5 shirts.
i'm like, "mom, at least buy me enough clothes so that i can go a week wearing something different each day..."
and she's like "well you can just wash them before the other ones get dirty"
me: "-_-"
they think that any shirt over $10 is a waste.
Asian here as well, and its a absolute ***** to get them to buy me clothes. I have finally swapped my wardrobe out now so i'm ok with it. I'd like more but...eh, its good enough. I'll buy more when i have money of my own.
I think that with a lot of asian parents, just nag like a b**** and they'll give in a bit, if you know what i am saying.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Since I moved out on my own a little more than four years ago I greatly expanded my wardrobe. I have filled two full closets and have quite a few boxes of older, not worn clothes.
In my not so humble opinion... you can never have too many clothes.
In my not so humble opinion... you can never have too many clothes.
decadentdestruction
Don Juan
alot is never enough in my book , I like to follow trends in fashion , and keep up with the times, what I do with my old clothes or things that are not in style, I donate to charity , ex salvation army or goodwill, or when I go to mexico on vacation , I give my stuff to my cousins who can't afford what I buy
alnite
Don Juan
One.
Loin cloth.
Loin cloth.
2 pairs of casual brown shoes
2 pairs of casual black shoes
2 pairs of tennis shoes
5 pairs of jeans
2 pairs of cargo pants
1 columbia winter jacket
1 casual brown jacket
1 casual black jacket
10 hoodies
10 polos
10 t-shirts
various undershirts
bunch of shorts, etc etc.
2 pairs of casual black shoes
2 pairs of tennis shoes
5 pairs of jeans
2 pairs of cargo pants
1 columbia winter jacket
1 casual brown jacket
1 casual black jacket
10 hoodies
10 polos
10 t-shirts
various undershirts
bunch of shorts, etc etc.
DonGorgon
Master Don Juan
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IM very picky so i have a few thing s that i really like i never by anything that i dont love... I tend to stock up on nice clothes and shoes when i see them so when i have a date i dont have to scrabble and rush to find the perfect shirt and shoes...
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.