"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how much cheating are we supposed to tolerate?

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OldbutSTRONG

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Captain said:
"If everybody is doing it then it must be OK".

No, it's not.
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It's not okay but how can you control your woman or in fact your own ego/sex drive?

We can't spend 24 hours a day with our woman nor do we want to. Unless we see it with our own eyes we have to assume she's being faithful. But I wouldn't count on it. There's not too many females that are loyal. We just like to believe it. Or rather the one we chose never cheated or isn't thinking of cheating.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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OldbutSTRONG said:
want to. Unless we see it with our own eyes we have to assume she's being faithful. But I wouldn't count on it. There's not too many females that are loyal. We just like to believe it. Or rather the one we chose never cheated or isn't thinking of cheating.
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True, you can't spend 24/7 with her, but you can craft and define what female cheating means for you and what the consequences will be for your wayward LTR if it happens.
Then, if you are confronted with a behavior by her which violates your 'rules' ,you are forearmed and prepared . Whether you bring the hammer down or just walk away is then your choice.

THe absolute worst situation for a guy is to be blindsided by a woman's flirty/cheating behavior.. Prepare yourself for the day when you observe her getting all over another guy or just being touchy feely with some random diude at a party. IT may neve happen, but if it does you need to be ready to move swiftly and harshly.

Unless you can refer to your internalized 'rules of engagement' when cheating happens, you are likely to be further blindsided by her BS 'explanation' of why she was doing what she was doing .
 
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